Your own personal sex slave
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Your own personal sex slave
| Tue, 07-17-2007 - 5:34pm |
Who amongst you would love to have your own personal sex slave? Anything you wanted, anytime you wanted it! If you're shy or timid, what would it take to get you to take over and demand what you want? If you had this with your SO would you want to switch up or just have it be you Dom him Sub. What would you want to have him do the most and how often?


Oh, I do think I already have my own personal sex slave!!
I often joke with my dh that I am his sex slave but I truly think he is mine. We are pretty open with what our desires are. He takes extremely good care of me-sexually and non-sexually. If I want something he provides it if at all in his power to do
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Not for me.
Knowing that my wife enjoys what she's doing to me gives me far more pleasure. It's a major turn on for me knowing that my wife is making the free will choice to please me and share her body with me.
-LG
I understand that, but what about what you could do for her? You say she enjoys what she does for you, doesn't that sound one sided to you. Think how great it would be for your mate to feel empoerted enough to ask you, demand that you, eat her or whatever else she may want that good girls just don't do.
I think that women are far more sexual, even kinkier, then we men may think. I want a women who can unleash the beast and take what, do whatever she wants.
That is just me thuugh, you may diagreee!
Solve et Coagu
I think there is a difference between communicating your wants and desires and being in a dom/sub relationship. I know that DH and I "loosely" share the initiation of our sexual activities; however, I think that more plans are followed based on my desires than his. I don't view us as having a D/s relationship of any sort, other than during very occasional play that might include light bondage. While I may tell him what I want him to do, it is only after years of being his partner and feeling comfortable enough in my own skin -- and trusting enough of our relationship -- that I can really express myself this way.
I think in many D/s relationships, the sub actually gains sexual satisfaction by being controlled; and the true mission of the dom partner is to help the sub have that satisfaction. The dom is not satisfied so much by being in control, but in knowing that their control results in the satisfaction of their partner.
I guess that I think you are combining topics by indicating that a woman that is sexually confident is also interested in a D/s relationship. Although they may co-exist, I don't think one is necessary for the other.
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There are times we role play sex slave and D/s.
I would consider DH and I sex slaves to each other.
We both enjoy sex I love being submissive to him.
Now breaking out of the good girl box was a challenge
for me. It took a lot of trust and a big leap for me to
ever say or do something dirty. Once I did i loved it!
I kissed that good girl good bye! lol
I do enjoy being in control to a degree. So we tend to take
turns. As long as we both enjoy each other that's all that really
matters to me.
Kareese
Wow, DW and I were just talking about this very topic. We are planning a sex-slave-for-a-day thing. All out, whatever, however for 24 hours. I have to go first because if I have her first then she will try to outdo me and that might mean a world of trouble for me.
i-am-in-the-cellar
Happy together for 20+ years....

my partner in the siggy exchange
Of course you will get all the (post-able) details. We are still working it out. First thought would be on a weekend. But the young kids around we are leaning towards a weekday (Friday most likely) after they start school since they would be out of the house for most of the day and then have the sleep over at a friend’s house.
But the plan is taking shape.
i-am-in-the-cellar
Happy together for 20+ years....
