is your SO an interesting sleeper?

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is your SO an interesting sleeper?
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Mon, 04-23-2007 - 10:59pm

my bf sometimes wakes me up in the night talking and i'll talk back and we can have entire conversations together that will be completely random

i once started having sex with him and he didn't wake up until part way through

last night, he all of the sudden started rubbing my tummy. it started to wake me up and i noticed it wasn't normal touching b/c if he's usually waking me up it'd be in a sexual way. so i'm slowly coming to and he slaps my stomach. i wake up more like wtf???? and as soon as he did it he was like OH S--T!! I'M SORRY! I'M SORRY I'M SORRY! and was confused too. he said he has no idea what was going on and he thinks he probably thought he was rubbing my butt and thought it'd be a good idea to spank me. lol.

any other good stories?

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Mon, 04-23-2007 - 11:13pm
LOL that's funny!!! I love when ppl talk in their sleep. Hubby does alot but most of the time I can't understand him. Sometimes though when I can he says the weirdest things....One night he was talking about watering the bugs and this other time he was talking about how he was going to knock someone out!! LOL
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Mon, 04-23-2007 - 11:20pm

lol. yeah. the stuff he says is like that. usually i can't understand so i keep asking him to repeat it until i can understand it.

a lot of the time i'll be like well, if you're awake, open your eyes. and he never does.

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Mon, 04-23-2007 - 11:26pm

No, no interesting stories here. I haven't had that much "sleeping experiences" with him because we haven't had any sleep overs - sad, I know - and the rest of the time we're making use of the time. I will say that we have fallen asleep together after sex (or he falls asleep when we're watching TV) and he's a mighty snorer - lol. I wonder if I snore like that... hmmm.

Oh, your story is hilarious, I would be confused too.

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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 7:44am

My DH does some pretty unusual things in his sleep. He is usually dreaming that he has to save me (LOL). I've woken to him holding me at a distance, firmly, and yelling "don't move". When I finally convince him that everything is okay, we're both laying in our bed, it's like there was a huge crater in the middle that he was afraid I was going to fall into! One night he was sleep walking and put his shoes under my side of the bed (still haven't figured that one out).

There have been some really hilarious nights with him -- but it's gotten to the point where I barely wake up. I just say "Everything is fine, now go back to sleep!"



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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 8:47am

There's nothing really interesting about the way my wife sleeps other than some of the ways she uses to wake me up for sex. (Perhaps I'm such a sound sleeper I do not notice if there was anything interesting?)

Hmm, this thread made me think of another thread to start along the same lines...

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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 10:15am

he also can be a big snorer, but i'm a pretty heavy sleeper so it doesn't bother me usually

he also sometimes thinks i'm not close enough to him or REALLY needs to cuddle (think he's still sleeping) and he'll grab me and pull me close to him which it's not very gentle since he's pretty much pulling dead weight since i wake up and don't know what's going on. he then wraps his arms around me REALLY tight and squeezes to pull me closer to him.

once his alarm was going off. woke me up. i climbed over him, to shut it off and on my way back i punched him really hard. no idea why. i just did and then was like uh oh..... but he doesn't remember it, so it's all good :)

once he had a bad dream and i touched him to wake up and he was about ready to attack me

his old roommate tells me that sometimes he wakes up in the middle of the night screaming. haven't experienced that yet...thank goodness!

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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 1:46pm

Haha these stories are great. I have only slept with my lover a couple of times and the first thing that comes to mind is: SNORING. And I know I snore a bit too but I mean - not like him. Sometimes I worry that he isn't breathing! haha But I know if I woke him up, he'd just be mad at me. :P

It's sad because he draws me close to him in his sleep and then like SNORES directly in my ear. And I don't want to pull away so I suffer through sleepless nights for him teehee. One time he said something but I was like, "Are you awake?" and got no response so I guess he was just sleep-talking.

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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 4:31pm

haha. my bf does that too, but i just pull away. i don't care if it bothers him. i need sleep :-P and get REALLY annoyed when he doest that

he's been really sick and coughing really bad, so if i wake up in the middle of the night i would always stare at him to make sure he's breathing.

the very first time we slept together, he was going to sleep on the floor b/c he didn't want me to feel weird or pressure or anything since we hadn't been hanging out for a really long time yet. but then i said he could sleep in bed with me b/c i had had a little to drink so i was friendlier and felt bad making him sleep there. he only had a twin, but we slept apart. somehow we ended up cuddling and he kept rubbing me all over. i was like wtf. why is he touching my boobs and vagina???? so then he put his hands down the back of my pants and i woke up and ripped his hands out of there. lol. i never wanted to sleep with him again!! he said he just woke up and his hand was down the back of my pants so as he was trying to get it out, i woke up.

whenever we have a fight he still sleeps over. and i'll wake up in the middle of the night and he'll be rubbing my body all over, but he'll be sleeping.

i really have no idea how he does this stuff in his sleep!!!

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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 4:55pm
My Dh never really talks in his sleep but he did the other day and it was quite interesting. I had just put my baby in his crib and climbed into bed when my Dh opened his eyes and asked me "Which one was it" ..lol..I assumed he had said that because I had just finished breastfeeding my son..so I told him which breast I had used. Then he started rubbing and playing with the other breast. After about 5-10 minutes of teasing my breast he rolled over and passed out. I asked him the next day why he stopped and he had no idea what i was talking about. i told him what he did and he just busted out laughing claiming he didn't remember it at all. It was so comical!
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Wed, 04-25-2007 - 12:17pm

Well one time he blured out that..he just couldn't handle it anymore...I was like what honey? He was fast asleep. I asked him what he meant when he woke up and he had no recollection of saying it...

sometimes...when he is sleeping..he will squeeze me whereever his hand is...usually my butt...and he will squeeze really hard and it will wake me up...i just laugh it off now...b/c i know that he is asleep...

he only snores really really loudly when he gets drunk and then passes out...the last time he got really drunk he passed out on my friends living room floor and I couldn't wake him up hardly, much less move him...

so i finally got him up...and I dress him in his pj's and he asked me if i would always do that for him? ha ha I told him that I would be happy to do it for him all the time when we are like 80yrs old!! He doesn't remember any of that at all...plus, he was snoring so loudly that night...usually I just nudge him and he will roll over and stop snoring but that night nudgeing him did no good at all...he was too far gone for me to reach him...so I left him there in bed...and went to sleep on the couch...

well he woke up the next day and thought that I was mad at him for doing something wrong since I wasn't sleeping with him....I just told him that he was snoring too loud and so I slept on the couch...