Zorro......

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Registered: 10-27-2004
Zorro......
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Wed, 10-27-2004 - 9:03am
Hi ya'll. I have an issue and am hoping that someone else has come up against something similar.

Hubby and I have been married for almost two years. A year ago I bought a Zorro mask for him to wear while having sex. I can't tell you what it's done for our sex life. It's just about the sexiest thing I've ever encountered -- imagine how a little thing like a mask can do that. At first he was very excited about wearing it, but I can't seem to get him to wear it more than once in a while. I would want him to wear it every single time if possible, shouldn't he wear it at least every other time? It's only a mask. Bless your little hearts if you can advise me.


Edited 10/27/2004 9:05 am ET ET by peachy_keene

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Registered: 10-28-2004
In reply to: peachy_keene
Thu, 10-28-2004 - 8:13pm
I wasn't agreeing that the mask was analogous to lingerie, only agreeing about the possible feelings he may have felt. My last bf had a thing(not fetish because he didn't require it for arousal)for lingerie. He would have preferred that I wore it every single day, and even though it may have "enhanced" what God gave me, I couldn't help feeling...

"But after a while he's realised that it's not him wearing a mask that turns you on, it's the mask itself that is getting the reaction."

and this...

"No doubt he is feeling that you like sex with the mask more than you do with him. He isn't wearing it as often simply because it's gotten old for him (even though you still like it) and its making him feel a bit uncomfortable wearing it all the time."








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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: peachy_keene
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 1:15am
Oh yeah. I agree with that. I acknowledged something like that at the start of my last post. Wearing/using something too often can completely do that. Somewhat like that b/f, I love to see my partner in lingerie too. I'd be thrilled if she wore it everyday - but I certainly don't demand that she wear it every day - and you can be sure that she doesn't! :-)
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: peachy_keene
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 4:22pm
I'll wager that the OP's DH would be up for exchanging the mask for a pair of silky boxers right now! LOL!


Edited 10/29/2004 4:26 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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In reply to: peachy_keene
Fri, 10-29-2004 - 6:17pm
Thank you ya'll for your responses.

Someone asked me if this has been something I have always liked. Ever since I was a very young, I had a thing for a Zorro type mask. The mask I bought for him has large eye cutouts so that his eyes are perfectly visible. And simply because it's a mask that Zorro wore, does not mean that I'm fantasizing about him being Zorro at all. Nothing is further from the truth. Him in the mask is a sexy enhancement to his strong facial features, including his steel blue eyes(black against blue...swoon). In fact, he's my first and only sex partner and I saw it in a movie during a sexy scene, and it resparked my interest). I do for him all of the time, I wear leather outfits(his favorite), sexy lingerie, and he buys me dress-up playwear(including wigs, sunglasses and props) that I wear all of the time). I don't think it's asking too much of him to wear the mask. It's really the only thing that I love. There is one other...but he hates wearing it. It's a leather g-string. He said that it's uncomfortable(sweaty and hot). I understand so I settle for the mask(even though the leather that I wear is uncomfortable too).

I wanted to leave him alone about it to see if he would wear it for me because he knows how much I love it(even if it's once a week), but it's been dwindling down to nothing. Now it's time for me to confront him to find out why.

Bless your hearts for helping me.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: peachy_keene
Sat, 10-30-2004 - 8:40pm
>>I'll wager that the OP's DH would be up for exchanging the mask for a pair of silky boxers right now! LOL! <<

LOL!


Edited 10/30/2004 8:42 pm ET ET by westridge2001

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Registered: 08-04-2004
In reply to: peachy_keene
Mon, 11-01-2004 - 3:09pm
I'm very late in posting here, but I think it is WAY SEXY about the zorro mask! I could defintely get into that! (As for your question - I think you got a lot of good answers).

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