Double ended dildo

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Double ended dildo
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Fri, 09-18-2009 - 4:25pm

For those of you who use a double ended dildo with your partner, what position(s) have you used and what worked best for you.

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Fri, 09-18-2009 - 5:39pm
I would like DW to use one vaginally on her and do me. Sounds like fun but that will never happen, she would not go for that.
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Sat, 09-19-2009 - 8:23am
Great question, Tish.



I hope Suki is lurking ~ I think she's mentioned using these before. I'm sure she would have some great suggestions too.

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Sat, 09-19-2009 - 8:56am

I haven't seen

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Sat, 09-19-2009 - 3:09pm
Was that with a Feldoe? She might have posted about that on one of the LTAS challenge threads.











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Sat, 09-19-2009 - 3:29pm

talking about me?

We've used the feeldoe a few ways. With the bulb in me vaginally while I do Mark. He's worn the bulb anally and done DP on me (a bit awkward but it's worked) and some variations on that.

I still want a harness to use with it just b/c it doesn't sit as high as I'd like it too...and that would give me a bit more confidence using it.

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Sat, 09-19-2009 - 9:14pm

Thanks Laura, it's a PITA when that life thing gets in the way of fun.

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Tue, 09-22-2009 - 7:12pm

Hey Tish! OMG, I've been away, too long! Does this mean your man has alluded to wanting to finally try a strap on with you??

I have used a couple of these and when I use it, I use it vaginally on me. I'm not a big fan of anal for myself, so as of right now, I wouldn't get much pleasure from that.

As far as positions, there are a lot of fun positions! I find that missionary (me on my knees, him on his back) is typically most comfortable for him and makes access to his penis very easy. The only thing I don't like about this position is that angling is a little more challenging - especially with my short legs. But, I know you are up to any challenge of this sort! To make it easier, I usually prop his butt up on top of a pillow or two.

Doggy is certainly the easiest position to use a double ender, but it isn't always the most comfortable for him. I think it depends on the angle of his end. You can also have him lay on pillows on his stomach to raise his butt up. This would be more comfy since he wouldn't be using his leg muscles.

I've tried also spooning, which can be nice and quite loving, but it is harder for me to thrust this way.

When you use a double ended dildo, it can be frustrating to have to hold it with your hands. Especially when you are just learning how to thrust your hips the right way (feels kind of odd at first). I recommend getting a harness, one with thigh straps for stability. It makes it a lot easier to focus on what you're doing instead of trying to hold the double ender in place.

Hope that helps!

 

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Tue, 09-22-2009 - 7:13pm
Thanks for letting me know about this post! love the new siggy.

 

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Tue, 09-22-2009 - 8:04pm

Good to see you Suki and thanks for the info!

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Tue, 09-22-2009 - 10:00pm
Tish, I'm sorry to hear about that. I'm sure it's for the best and I'm glad that you are both on the same page. I also vote "yes" for your partner application. ;) There are many good things on the horizon!

 

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