Ever been caught by your kids?

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Registered: 09-01-2009
Ever been caught by your kids?
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Fri, 09-04-2009 - 6:05pm

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Registered: 09-02-2009
Fri, 09-04-2009 - 6:51pm
I am a single mom of 2 girls...12 n 16... About a year ago they found my purple bendy thing as well. They didn't say anything but I could tell things were gone through. A few months ago my youngest informed me of the discovery! I told her I know u found it! She asked why I had it and I (we've had sex talks many times) let her now it is a perfectly normal activity to masterbate! I told her they needed 2 not be so nosey because sometimes you find things you'd rather NOT!
I also remember finding my mothers at a young age and realizing later what it was! "Gees Mom!"
Don't feel guilty your human!!
MOTHERBEAR
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 09-04-2009 - 8:06pm

Hi, Sexy ~ welcome to the toy board.

It's unfortunate that you don't have a private bedroom that you can go into. I think you handled the situation well though. Your daughter was satisfied with the answer you gave her.

Let me ask ... would you feel guilty if she had seen you sitting in a window nook reading a book? Being a mom is a 24/7 job. You need to be able to have some down time in your day. You were there for your children if they needed you, and you engaged them in an activity that would normally have kept them busy. They were both old enough to be in the situation that they were in for a short time. There's no guilt to feel in any of that.

Chalk it up as a lesson learned. The lesson being that you need to make sure you are in a place that will be private. Maybe you could put a lock on the basement door, or make sure you're in the bathroom with the door closed the next time you need some alone time.












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Fri, 09-04-2009 - 8:07pm
Welcome to the board, Angel ~ it's great to see you joining in.











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Registered: 09-01-2009
Fri, 09-04-2009 - 10:26pm

I definetly will be making our space more private. It has been on the list but well you know how that goes.


Kids will be in school soon so that helps too. Allready know where I will be at least for some time fridays noon till 3. My only time with NO ONE else in the house! I cannot wait!!!


Still feel wierd about the whole thing. DD has a killer memory and I know this will come back to haunt me.

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