Harness Advice Wanted

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Harness Advice Wanted
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Mon, 10-13-2008 - 8:15am
I would like readers to tell me what the best no-slip harness is (so I don't have to hold my dildoes steady) which still rides low (so a one-way dildo can still arouse me a little) and which can also be used with a Nexus or a Feeldoe. Has anyone tried the "low rider" or the "Jacques comfort cloth jock-style harness?"
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Registered: 10-14-2008
Tue, 10-14-2008 - 6:26pm

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Wed, 10-15-2008 - 7:46am
Welcome to the board, Tigger .... it's great to have you joining in!




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Registered: 02-17-2007
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 7:05pm

The best harness I have is a cloth type that has thigh and waist/hip straps which I wear low on my hips. It is adjustable all around, but cannot be used with a double ended dildo. The only one I've tried with a double ender is the Bare As You Dare harness and that worked pretty good for me! If it had thigh straps, that would be the only thing better, I think.

I would look for styles that offer thigh straps as well as the waist/hip ones; the thigh straps really help keep things in place. I also personally hate the ones that actually go around your waist, I would look for ones that you can at least adjust to fit on your hips for a lower, more comfortable and more sexy fit.

I'll look around and see if I can come up with anything, but I have yet to see very many harnesses that you can use with a double ender.

 

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Wed, 10-15-2008 - 7:19pm

You know, I just realized that my cloth harness could actually double as a double ender harness if I just remove the cloth part. The one I have is very similar to "The Topping Kit" at JT's Stockroom.

The Low Rider harness (if I'm looking at the right one) looks pretty, but I don't think that the harnesses without the thigh straps hold the dildo in place as well. Also, just a personal thing, but with my harnesses, I tend to avoid leather because it is not washable (and I get quite wet when I've got one on). Also, leather usually isn't as adjustable as cloth, so it may not fit the way I want it to. Of course, like the other poster said, you could try some on and see what you think will work for you. It is a bit like toy shopping, though - you never can tell till you actually try it out.

That Jacques harness looks really great! It says you can pull the fabric away to use with a double ender. Between the two, I would definitely go for this one.

 

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Registered: 11-09-2006
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 7:08am
What good advice! Thank you. This weekend I used a doc johnson's, which was really steady, but you can only use doc johnson's products with it, so I am looking for others. Have you tried what look like pantie style ones? I don't know if it's okay to put the address down but here's what I'm looking at: http://www.nawtythings.com/harnass.html#panty
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Fri, 10-17-2008 - 7:36am

Actually, I recommend that you change your link by replacing the . with (dot). Because of where it leads, it could easily be deleted by the PTB. By replacing the ., it won't be a clickable link and will be able to stay.





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Registered: 10-14-2008
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 4:24pm

What do you think of the Terra Firma and Jagauar Suki. They both seem to ride low, allow for a double, and be sturdy. They also have interchangable o rings for different sixe toys!

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 5:22pm

I love the harnesses that allow you to change your O-rings. I think this allows for the most versatility in toy use, and, well, that's why we use them in the first place!

The Jaguar is very pretty and I have only heard good things about Aslan Leathers, but again, this doesn't have any thigh straps. So, it's not going to be as stable. I consider the harnesses without the thigh straps to be more "advanced" models.

The Terra Firma, though, that looks really great! It has the thigh straps and everything is adjustable. I personally wouldn't get it because it is leather (can't wash it) but if you are looking for a good leather harness, this one looks like a nice one.

 

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 5:48pm

I personally don't like the panty style - they are generally very uncomfortable and do not fit well. In fact, I have only seen the plasticy sort or the cheap fabric kind and I don't see any of those really working well or holding up for very long. They also do not have the thigh straps, so they aren't going to be very stable. I would say that the leather harnesses without the thigh straps will be much more stable than the panty style.

The BoyShorts, tho, those are really cute and fit really well. I have worn those and they are very adjustable and comfy - I always say to go one size bigger than the box says because the elastic is not all that elasticy.

 

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Registered: 11-09-2006
Sat, 10-18-2008 - 8:25am
You've used the boyshorts harness, then? What kind of dildoes have you done with it and did they stay in place? How does it compare to other harnesses you've used? I want to thank you, Suki, for help me.
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