Help with first dildo purchase

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Registered: 01-14-2010
Help with first dildo purchase
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Thu, 04-01-2010 - 11:01am
This is my first time posting. Just looking for some advice on the size of dildo to buy for my wife. We've been married for 7 yeas and have a great sex life, but recently we've been looking to "spice" it up a bit. We never used any toys at all until we got a vibrator about 3 months ago. She and I love it! Occasionally during sex when DW is really worked up she talks about an "ache" to be filled. I'm thinking maybe she would like a dildo larger than I am during these times. Now I'm 6 1/2" long and 4 3/4" around (and very confident of my ability). Should I get one to really stretch her like 6" around, or get one just slightly larger than myself? We wouldn't use this every time, just when she get's really worked up and craving it bad from the "ache". Any suggestions are much appreciated.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 04-01-2010 - 7:12pm

Welcome to the board, Whinot.

We have a great adult toy store near us, the sales staff is very helpful. DH went in there a few years ago to buy me a realistic dildo, and they helped him choose. They advised him against buying one that was too large, and I'm really glad they did. The thing about a real penis is that it changes sizes a bit throughout any event. The rubber dildos do not have any give to them. I don't know how big it is, to me, it just looks like a very ample penis but not huge. I have no interest in having a larger one even the though sales girl told DH it's nice to start with a size like he got and then move up.













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Registered: 01-02-2010
Sun, 04-04-2010 - 5:51pm

We just got one that has "cyberskin" a nice, realistic feel. If it's any help, Amazon.com has ratings on them as do some of the online sites. Also

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Registered: 12-12-2007
Tue, 04-13-2010 - 10:45am
Like Misty said bigger isn't always better and neither is longer because it can hurt when bumping against the cervix. :)

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 04-14-2010 - 7:09am
Welcome back, Tina ~ glad to see you're still enjoying your toys :-)











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Registered: 12-12-2007
Fri, 04-23-2010 - 1:38pm
Thanks love!

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