I am looking for a good Guy toy

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Registered: 06-04-2004
I am looking for a good Guy toy
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Fri, 12-11-2009 - 12:23pm

DW and I are bringing more and more toys into our sex play.
I have not used a masturbator in 12 years so I am out of touch in this department. DW would like to get me a "toy" and I am not sure what to tell her to get for me. I am intrigued by the Breast masturbators and the flesh light. As I have commented on we are not going to drop $6K on a realdoll so we are looking for recommendations for something that DW and I could both enjoy.




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Registered: 03-11-2005
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 4:45am

We have a large toy collection-some for her and some for me. I enjoy her using toys like the Pocket Rocket on my penis. I haven't tried the Fleshlight,but it doesn't really interest mr. Toys that she uses most on me are anal toys for prostate massage. While many guys have hang ups about any thing anal on them(and I did too at one time) once they try it during a blowjob they will be hooked. DW always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms.

Anal toys we enjoy are Anal T, Spectragels Vibrating Anal Twister and various vibrating dildos that she also uses. We have tried anal beads, but we do not like them. Remember that with any anal toy use lots and lots of lube. In selecting an anal toy be careful that it is not too large in diameter. The maximum diameter for me is 1 1/4 inches. Length is not important. Up to 7 inches is great and we like silicone dildos best.

If he does not have any hang ups you all may enjoy strap on sex. We have been using Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness, two silicone dildos and a vibrator that fits in the harness for stimulating her clitoris while she does me. She jerks me off while she does me. We usually cum together. We recently have purchased a new harness(Buzz Me Tender). It is fantastic. She uses one of her vibrating dildo on me(Vibrating Mistress and Tantus Leisure). It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on as she rubs lube on the dildo and talks dirty about her penis.

Many years ago I never dreamed that I would enjoy this type of anal play, but as I understood my prostate better I decided to try type of anal play and WOW I was hooked. I guess I thought of this as somewhat gay, but nothing could be further from the truth.

Let us know what toys you two deide on and how you like them. Have fun.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 8:08am

Gerry, if it's a toy that the two of you would like to use together, I'll tell you about a couple that interest me.

I got DH a sleeve a couple of years ago that has two textures (it can be turned inside out). While I love to watch him use it, or I love to use it on him, I also have a fantasy that one day we'll be able to have intercourse while he's wearing it. We have tried a couple of times, but he swears there is nothing else that will fit inside of me with him. I think, given the right timing, we'll be able to make it work .... just need to practice more often ;-)

The other thing that I would like to try is a dildo designed for dp. The one that a couple of members around here have tried is a penis ring with the dildo attached. Either the dildo or the penis is inserted anally, the other vaginally during intercourse.






















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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 3:10pm

" While I love to watch him use it, or I love to use it on him, I also have a fantasy that one day we'll be able to have intercourse while he's wearing it"

That sounds like fun! I must admit that I never thought of that use for a sleeve.
DW and have tried the extensions and the "jacket" with a vibrator built in. None of them have really worked.
Since I am a breast connoisseur DW was looking at one of the "Breast" masturbators. I say they look interesting and if she helps me use them it would be even more interesting.




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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 9:06pm
Now, is that something like a nipple pump or is it a pair for you to use?





















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Registered: 06-04-2004
Mon, 12-14-2009 - 9:56pm

Misty,
It's a "pair" for me to use.
Like I said it's interesting. It would be for me to slide inbetween while DW watches and guides or holds whichever piece.




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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 12-15-2009 - 6:09am
Definitely sounds like a toy designed for you, Gerry ;-)





















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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 7:10am

I would post a picture of it but it would violate TOS.




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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 10:35am
I sent you some information on the toy.



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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 11:21am

I vote for the Htachi magic wand. It's not just for women anymore...
Your so can use it on you, with or without attachments. And you can use it on her or solo also. I bought one for DW a while back and use it on y own often.

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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 5:54pm

I just ordered one for her today!




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