Introducing toy into sex with hubby

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ivy1974
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Registered: 02-27-2012
Introducing toy into sex with hubby
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 Mon, 02-27-2012 - 1:01pm

Hi. Im new to this board. I recently purchased a "rabbit". So far I have only used it solo. How do I introduce it into sex with my husband? He is all for it I'm just not quite sure when and how to make it a part of our sex experience. Any tips would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

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Arrow768
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Registered: 05-26-2013
In reply to: Arrow768
Re: Introducing toy into sex with hubby
 Mon, 05-27-2013 - 1:05am

Yes if he is all for it, just bring it out! I am a guy and I am not intimidated at all with a woman using a vibrator. Its fun and there are numerous ways for a woman to use it either while the guy watches or during sex. 

--Ron  

cmtasha
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Registered: 04-21-2008
In reply to: ivy1974
Re: Introducing toy into sex with hubby
 Thu, 03-22-2012 - 8:23am

I just wanted to check in with you, Ivy.

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southerncpl2008
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Registered: 11-15-2009
In reply to: ivy1974
Re: Introducing toy into sex with hubby
 Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:34am
Ivy, I personally was on board with my wife using toys especially if I got to watch her or pleasure another part of her body at the same time. Example, my wife loves using her hitachi on her clit while I lick her breasts, butt, nipples etc. I also love it when I'd come home and she'a playing away on the bed :)

Hope this works out for you!
passionplus
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Registered: 05-20-2007
In reply to: ivy1974
Re: Introducing toy into sex with hubby
 Sun, 03-18-2012 - 10:14pm

If he's all for it, your 99% there...

Leave it on your bedside table within easy reach....

Send him a suggestive sms/mms during the day and say "Up for a

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chicago2007
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Registered: 01-04-2007
In reply to: ivy1974
Re: Introducing toy into sex with hubby
 Mon, 02-27-2012 - 3:17pm
Have you two used any toys at all? Perhaps start off with a vibrating penis ring which could be a toy for the both of you and then move up to a vibrator which you and he could use on your clit while having intercourse. Once comfortable then move to the rabbit but make sure he gets some sexually attention while playing with the rabbit.
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