Introducing a Vibrator during Sex

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Registered: 02-20-2009
Introducing a Vibrator during Sex
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Mon, 02-01-2010 - 10:40pm

Hi. I do not use a vibrator and would like to introduce one during sex, one that he can use on me during and before intercourse would turn me on, however I am shy. I do not know how he would take it, but I think once he tried it, he would have fun. When he is using it on me as foreplay, should I recipricate with a great hand job or a toy?


Can someone offer a word of advise or encouragement about the matter?


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 9:18pm

If you're not sure how he would feel about toys, one place that you could start is by getting a vibrating penis ring. Both Trojan and Durex make small ones that are sold with condoms. They aren't very powerful, but they're easy to get and not intimidating for him. Once you give it a try, depending on how he reacts, you can suggest trying something else.

Valentines is always a great time to introduce sexy gifts too!














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Registered: 02-20-2009
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 11:12pm

Hi,


I don't know about Trojan. He hated condems because he was in between sizes. I once bought him a vibrating ring, but it was too small and uncomfortable. Is there some place

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 7:07am

The rings don't really come in sizes, they just have a stretch band that expands to fit and hold. There are better quality ones at toy stores, you might want to shop at one of those.

I enjoy my bullet, but it's a bit more difficult to use during intercourse. Because it's small, you have to be positioned right to be able to hold it (either of you). If you want a toy to use during intercourse, look for one with a longer handle and the vibrating mechanism near the tip of the toy. That gives you the extra reach that is needed with most positions. The bullet can be fun to use during oral or manual stimulation though.

Another toy that gets good reviews for first toys is the Pocket Rocket. There's a variety of those on the market. Some of them have interchangeable heads so that you can have different sensations.














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Registered: 01-04-2007
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 2:54pm

I would also start with the penis ring.