Is it possible for women to not enjoy vibrators?

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Registered: 06-15-2011
Is it possible for women to not enjoy vibrators?
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Wed, 08-17-2011 - 6:00pm
My dw got a vibrator for her batchlorette party as kind of a gag gift. She kept it and as far as I know she never has used it except for the 1 time I talked her into letting me use it on her. She didn't seem to care for it and it's been sitting in a duffle bag in our closet ever since. I enjoy the thought of her using it but I doubt she masturbates at all. Could it be that she doesn't enjoy it because it's not a quality vibrator? Would it be weird to get a good one for her seeing as how she's never mentioned liking them.
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Registered: 11-06-2011
Usually those gag gifts are oversized or the material that they are comprised of are not sensitive to her most sensitive area. I also have friends and customers that just cannot climax using a vibrator. I would recommend starting out w/ a WeVibe so both of you can enjoy, or as cmtasha said, shop with her and start with something simple.
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Registered: 05-30-2003

Honestly, I love vibrators and I've been made to orgasm from them even when I wasn't really ready to.

--Hugs!

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Registered: 04-21-2008
Mon, 10-24-2011 - 12:24pm

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Registered: 10-20-2011
I have a lot of customers that have this issue. Sometimes trying a bullet will work better--that way she doesn't have to use it internally if she doesn't want to. I recommend the 7 Function Wonder Bullet. It's my top seller. (See my screen name.) :)
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Registered: 04-21-2008

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Registered: 08-11-2011
Yup, your story is mine too.
Almost exactly the same.

I would love to see for her to develop some kind of relationship with pleasures her body can give. But she is just not into that. I wish I could help her...
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Registered: 08-01-2006

To answer your question in the title, yes it is possible.



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Registered: 04-21-2008
Fri, 08-19-2011 - 11:22am

I definitely think the sensation can be too much for some women.

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