OhMiBod/Wand tease

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OhMiBod/Wand tease
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Sun, 08-09-2009 - 11:17am
So y'all know that I'm the world's biggest tease. DW and I are doing the long-distance thing until next summer, and I've been working on an idea for an extended T&D/edging session for my next trip home over the Labor Day weekend. I love building her up, slowly, right to the edge of orgasm, and then balancing her there for as long as possible before giving her that push she needs to get over the edge. I know that y'all can have multiples — as can she — but her usual pattern is one big O, possibly followed by some smaller "aftershock" orgasms, and then she's done. The longer I can hold her off from that first big one, the more explosive it's going to be when she finally gets there.

This is basically going to be a kinky extended foreplay session, involving rope, a blindfold, one of her "fun" bra and panty sets, and two of her favorite turn-ons: music, and the touch of my hands on her body — for well over an hour. This morning it occurred to me that the OhMiBod vibe — which she's previously said is very good at getting her aroused, but not so much at getting her over the edge — would be the perfect addition to this scene once she reaches the higher stages of arousal (my basic philosophy is to err on the side of being too late proceeding to the next step, rather than too early). I've got almost a month before this will actually happen, so I have plenty of time to put together the perfect playlist, and work out other details.



Then, when I'm finally ready to give her that final push over the edge, I'm thinking it would be the perfect time to introduce her to her new friend and playmate, the Hitachi magic wand.



Yeah, I'm evil.

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Thu, 08-13-2009 - 8:28am

LOL, I'm laying wagers that the introduction of the wand will take her over the top in under 5 seconds ;-)

The intensity will be like none other .....


















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Sun, 08-30-2009 - 11:01pm
FYI, DW has been informed that I have plans for her when I'm home next weekend, without being told what they are. Now she'll be getting worked up all week, wondering what my devious little mind has come up with this time.

Yeah, I'm evil. Your point is.........

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Mon, 08-31-2009 - 7:19am

LOL.

To be sure you stay on the good side of evil, make sure you use lots of lube with the wand ;-)





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Mon, 08-31-2009 - 7:22am
Planning on it. And my evil acts are always committed with one ultimate goal in mind — my sweetie's orgasms.


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Fri, 09-04-2009 - 8:48am
That sounds awesome, Steve.

 

 

 

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Sat, 09-05-2009 - 6:51am
So I made a *very* interesting discovery last night. It seems that, while I've been gone, a couple of the sex toys in our collection have migrated from my nightstand drawer to her nightstand drawer — a clear sign of solo use.

One of them was the pocket rocket that I was looking for at the time I made the discovery. That didn't surprise me at all, as pretty much from day 1 it's been her "go to" vibe for a little clitoral stimulation to put her over the edge. It also sees some pretty heavy use during our phone sessions, and had it been the only one I might be questioning whether the migration was just due to that.



The other migrated toy, though, was the OhMiBod, which (a) we haven't used together in months, and (b) has never seen use during our phone sex sessions.



"That's interesting," I said, "I would not have expected to find the iPod vibe over here."



"Oh, I don't think I realized that was the iPod vibe. I just thought it was broken. It works just fine for what I use it for, though (meaning, obviously, as a dildo)."



I'm *so* happy (and more than a little turned on) that she's taking the time out for some sexual self-maintenance above and beyond our phone-sex sessions together, and that she's starting to spread her wings a little more when it comes to including toys in her self-loving.



YAY, DW!!!!!


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Sat, 09-05-2009 - 8:25am

That is cool, Steve!

Now ... if you can find a way to include the OMB in a phone session or something, even if just as a dildo, you might give her some special fantasy connections to the toy ;-)












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Sat, 09-05-2009 - 8:36am
Well tonight *is* the night of the big tease and edging session that was the original subject of this thread. I can pretty much guarantee that she'll have some fond memories of the OMB after that!

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Sun, 09-06-2009 - 7:20am
A slight change in plans. A good Dom is always attentive to the needs of his sub, and what my tired sub most needed last night was not this tease, but a more laid back and intimate form of connection. The tease, and the introduction of the wand, are still on for tonight, but I won't be posting details on how it went until after I'm back on the left coast Monday evening.

I'm still really psyched about the toys moving from my drawer to hers. As you know, I was the one who first introduced toys to our bedroom, and 9 times out of 10 I'm the one who brings them out to play with us during our encounters (the other 10% of the time she'll ask me to fetch "her vibrator" — meaning the pocket rocket — from the drawer). I've always let her know that she was welcome to use any of them at any time for some solo fun, but to the best of my knowledge she has not done so up until now. By laying claim to possession of the toys, it's like she's laying claim to her own sexuality and acknowledging its importance in her life — and that can only bode well for us as a couple in our continuing journey together.


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Mon, 09-07-2009 - 9:53pm
Wow, that's really great, Steve!

 

 

 

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