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ok just purchased a vibrator
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Fri, 11-27-2009 - 9:28pm

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 11-27-2009 - 9:36pm
Welcome to the board, conservwife. Congratulations on taking control of your own sexuality. I'm sorry to hear about your husband's back problems, that are leading to the relationship issues you're both dealing with. You might find the following article helpful when it comes to having the discussion with him. The central idea is to frame toys as tools that you can both use to bring you sexual pleasure, rather than "competition" or "a replacement" for him.

Sex Toys Are Win-Win: A Guide for Men






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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 11-28-2009 - 7:37am

Welcome to the board, Conservwife.

Not sure why you deleted your message, but if you would like to repost it, I'm sure the members here would be eager to offer advice.