Toy #2

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Toy #2
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Sat, 01-23-2010 - 10:13pm

My wife and I are pretty inexperienced when it comes to sex toys.

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: matt2005
Sat, 01-23-2010 - 11:04pm
Three little words.........

Hitachi.Magic.Wand

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: matt2005
Sun, 01-24-2010 - 7:59am

I agree with Steve, the wand is the best. Having said that, it could be too strong for someone who doesn't use a vibrator often. Do you know if she uses one for masturbation? Are you interested in using something during intercourse?

I have the wand, and it IS, by far, my favorite toy in the world. I have a lot of other toys that are fun, and they helped me learn more about what I liked in toys, and more about my body. Now that I have the wand, I rarely use those toys anymore.

If you want something that she will enjoy solo, and you can use on her, then I would recommend trying a rabbit with the rotating pearls (or beads). It's sort of a "do everything toy" but isn't as powerful as a wand.

The wand does send me over the edge, and I have orgasms like I've never experienced before .... but I wouldn't have wanted to miss all of the other experiences I had getting here, KWIM? Some women find the wand to be too strong, and it turns them away from it. I think every woman who enjoys sex toys will enjoy a wand eventually, but she may need to work up to it. (I don't like to hear about the wands collecting dust in the closet, lol.)

Another thing I would suggest is including a vibrator during intercourse. It will make a new experience too.








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Registered: 09-01-2009
In reply to: matt2005
Sun, 01-24-2010 - 1:03pm

A bullet vibe... I could not live without mine. A mini one is nice too because it can be tucked into the folds next to the clitoris while you have IC.

Oh I so need to get DH on board with using some toys with me...

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: matt2005
Sun, 01-24-2010 - 4:08pm
You do!!!!!