Vibrator

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Registered: 12-28-2006
Vibrator
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Fri, 07-31-2009 - 12:09pm

My wife is sexualy conservative. We have a vibe, well really

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: marriedguy2006
Fri, 07-31-2009 - 11:53pm
Honestly, I think the answer is going to depend on the individual woman. Some women would go for the stronger vibe because they're power tool users, while others would find it too strong and prefer something a little gentler. Some will prefer the softer material of the rubbery vibe. My DW, for example, *really* likes the feel of the soft material that Fun Factory use on their vibes. Hard plastic doesn't do a thing for her (although glass is a different matter entirely).

Why not talk to your wife about the choice you were faced with, and ask her about her preferences?


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Registered: 03-11-2005
In reply to: marriedguy2006
Sat, 08-01-2009 - 5:03am

You and your DW could shop in the privacy of your home by shopping together online. Sources like babeland dot com, goodvibes dot com and tantusinc dot com have great descriptions and reviews from users.

One that is small that she could use externally even during intercourse is the Pocket Rocket. Although it is somewhat pricy we both love silicone based toys.

Shop together and have fun!!

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Registered: 03-16-2005
In reply to: marriedguy2006
Sat, 08-01-2009 - 10:59pm
Try Drugstore dot com - I recommend jelly, waterproof, pink and it is quiet.
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Registered: 12-26-2008
In reply to: marriedguy2006
Sun, 08-02-2009 - 5:52pm

Hi marriedguy,


You've gotten several bits of good advice already.

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Registered: 12-28-2006
In reply to: marriedguy2006
Mon, 08-03-2009 - 12:50pm

The deal is she is rather conservative and getting her into a store would is a definite no.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: marriedguy2006
Tue, 08-04-2009 - 12:44pm

I think it will take some experiment on both of your parts to find the vibe(s) that she will call favorites. I know it's been that way for me, and my tastes change from one to another depending on my mood and how the vibe is being used.

No matter which type if material the vibe is made from, encourage her to always use the appropriate type of lube with it. Lube really can make all the difference in the world as to how well a vibe is enjoyed.

The Pocket Rocket is a toy that I've heard many mention here. I've not had one, but I have read about them here and on many toy sites. Some have different shapes/textures you can put on the tip which would offer a good bit of variety. I think they have several settings for intensity too.

I don't think toys with Hi/Lo settings offer enough choice. We all need different things, and at different times. I usually start my vibes below half intensity and work my way up to the highest setting. Sometimes I even back off and switch up after some time at that setting. It adds to the experience, so I would recommend getting a vibe with a good variety of settings. Some event have different types of vibrations as well as intensities.

Some of the toy websites rate the vibes on intensity and noise. One that you might want to check out is Babeland.com.