Virgins & Vibrators

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Registered: 02-01-2009
Virgins & Vibrators
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Tue, 03-10-2009 - 5:33pm

Hi. I hope these questions don’t seem too nit picky or juvenile or weird, but they are things that are bothering me. I have been thinking about purchasing my first vibrator. However, I am a virgin. I know it seems old-fashioned and weird, but I’ve always kind of thought the time in which a woman’s hymen is broken happens

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 03-10-2009 - 9:12pm

Do you know if you have a hymen?


Yes, using a vibrator or dildo can break your hymen, fingering can break it even for some women using a tampon could break it

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Registered: 04-24-2008
Tue, 03-10-2009 - 10:02pm

I would like to add to the above... You dont need to insert a vibe to masterbate. you can just rub the outside and the clitoris.

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Registered: 01-02-2008
Wed, 03-11-2009 - 8:41am
I agree, you can find a clit massager toy and orgasm that way insteaad of inserting a vaginal toy if you're worried about having your hymen intact.

 

 

 

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 03-11-2009 - 9:33am

Welcome to the board, Nola.

I don't think masturbating takes away your virginity. As for the hymen, like Tish asked, are you sure you still have one intact? Also, how important is it to you that it is intact? If it's very important to you that your hymen is intact, I would first make sure it is, and if so, then I wouldn't insert a vibe. Having clitoral stimulation is usually enough to have an orgasm.

I don't even know if my hymen was intact when I lost my virginity, but it didn't hurt to have intercourse. I think if your mind is comfortable with what your body is doing, then it's less likely to hurt. Nerves can play a big part in pain.

Here are a couple of articles you might want to read:

Know Thyself: The Female Form 101
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexsolo/0,,traceycox_b6vtmjv3,00.html

Masturbation 101: 6 Tips for Solo Pleasure
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexsolo/0,,drpatti_mskn,00.html

12 Secrets of Sensational Solo Sex
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexsolo/0,,s4jv,00.html













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Registered: 12-26-2008
Wed, 03-11-2009 - 6:00pm

From one Nola to another -- welcome!!!

You've already gotten lots of good advice, I can't add anything.

Other than good luck.







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