Well, I told him

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Registered: 02-18-2009
Well, I told him
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Sun, 02-22-2009 - 12:25pm
That I ordered a vibrator. This is something new that I am bringing into our bed. At first it was shock like "is she for real". He has always been afraid that this will replace him. I explained that this was something that I wanted to share with him. I guess he liked the idea because after that we had the greatest sex ever. It seems that after 12 years of him satisfying me, I want to turn the tables and satisfy him. I'm willing to try new things. Even though he says "this is your fantasy, what do you want?" I don't know how to tell him that I want him to give the orders. Well for now practice makes perfect and I'm willing to try anything...once to satisfy him.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: kearneyl
Sun, 02-22-2009 - 2:48pm

That's great ... it sounds like he's okay with it too.

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