worried about preferencs of her

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Registered: 06-23-2008
worried about preferencs of her
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Sat, 03-14-2009 - 6:20pm
hey so a week or so ago my girlfriend confessed to me that she has been using the handle of her brush like a dildo, which was very sexy. and even before she told me this i was already thinking of buying her a dildo or vibrator or both in once, w/e when i go to college 1. to keep her satisfied and 2. to remind her of me when she masterbates.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 03-14-2009 - 6:54pm

Welcome tot he board, Sstch3x.

I certainly don't prefer a dildo or vibrator to being with my DH, and I haven't heard of other women who do either. I don't think you need to worry about that.

Women can become dependent on vibrators, depending on how often they use them, but they can also break that habit by not using the toy for a week or so.

Vibrators are fun to use as a couple. You can use it on her during foreplay, she can masturbate with it while putting on a show for you, or the two of you can use it during intercourse on her clitoris.

Here are a couple of articles you should check out too:

Sex Toys Are Win-Win: A Guide for Men
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,traceycox_8jmprmrf,00.html

Should I Be Worried About My Wife and Her Dildo?
http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexual_worries/a/wife_and_dildo.htm?nl=1

Bad Vibrations: Am I dependent on a vibrator?
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,83v0,00.html

If you go to a sex shop to buy a vibrator, I also suggest talking to the sales staff there for recommendations. I know a lot of people swear by the Pocket Rocket as a good choice for a first vibe. It won't work as a dildo. If you don't want to buy 2 toys, you could consider a rabbit, which will work on the clitoris and as a dildo.













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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 03-15-2009 - 1:34pm

I've been using various kinds of sex toys for over 30 years

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Registered: 06-23-2008
Sun, 03-15-2009 - 2:36pm
ok thanks : )