4 for wed questions.....

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4 for wed questions.....
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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 8:44am

What things are too personal to discuss with others?


Can best friends become lovers? Can lovers stay best friends?


How would you react if you were to learn that your mate had had a lover of the same sex before you knew each other?


Describe a perfect romantic evening.


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Registered: 11-17-2005
Wed, 01-25-2006 - 9:41am

What things are too personal to discuss with others?
I'm not sure what "others" you are referring too, but if you are referring to neighbors/acquaintances then I would say anything to do with my personal life in general. It's different on this board as I really don't know any of you and visa versa.

Can best friends become lovers? Can lovers stay best friends?
Yes, my DH and I were friends for 1 1/2 years, dating other people, before we decided to day. To this date we are still best friends after 11 years of marriage.

How would you react if you were to learn that your mate had had a lover of the same sex before you knew each other?
Well, I can honestly say that would never happen.

Describe a perfect romantic evening.
Just a simple quiet evening alone with my DH.

 

 

 

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Registered: 11-20-2005
Wed, 01-25-2006 - 9:49am

What is too personal? Anything to do with sex, money, politics, religion, my marriage, is too personal if I am not good, good friends with you. If I am, let's lay it all out on the table. I want details!

Can friends become lovers? yes
Can lovers stay best friends? How easy is that one? For sure.

If A had a lover of the same sex? I would be shocked. If it was a one time thing, it made him who he is today right? Who am I to say anything?

Perfect romantic evening? Being alone, a nice dinner, a little wine, candle light, some dancing, good conversation. What can I say? I'm an old fashioned girl!

 

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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 10:21am
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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 10:24am

Too personal...hmmm well if we are really god friends nothing really is too personal I will share if you share, that is how I am...neighbors and such I don't share anything with but our street name and the occasional cup of sugar or olive oil.

I think it might be hard for best friends to become lovers at first but as far as lovers staying best friends, for sure my dh and I are soul mates and the bestest friends ever.

As far as the same sex relationship he likes vagina way tooo much do even entertain th thoughts of the same sex.

And a romantic evening...A huge bowl of popcorn, a gin and tonic for him and wine for me(I have these wine glasses that fit a whole bottle of wine!) and us on the couch him in his boxers and me in his flannel bathrobe...watching a movie...if it was a tv movie he would do push ups during the commercial and I love to watch him do that.

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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 10:42am

What things are too personal to discuss with others?~

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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 12:51pm
What things are too personal to discuss with others? I don't discuss religion or polotics
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Registered: 11-22-2005
Wed, 01-25-2006 - 12:58pm

1. I do not discuss politics or religion with anyone.

2. Yes to both. DW and I are best friends-but we were not friends first, then lovers.

3. I would be completley shocked. There is NO WAY that happened.

4. Home alone without the kids-just watching TV or a movie together. Gotta share a bottle of wine.

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Registered: 11-20-2005
Wed, 01-25-2006 - 1:49pm
Where can I get those wine glasses? so much classier than drinking out of the bottle like I normally do.What? I get tired of getting up.

 

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Registered: 11-22-2005
Wed, 01-25-2006 - 2:29pm
We have fairly large glasses-each holds about half a bottle. Got them at a dept. store. We had to buy 12-rare that we need that many.
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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 4:44pm

What things are too personal to discuss with others? ~ well sometimes sex life, and marital problems. ~

Can best friends become lovers? Can lovers stay best friends? ~ i have no idea, i would say no to that?? But then again I am guessing!~

How would you react if you were to learn that your mate had had a lover of the same sex before you knew each other? ~ i wouldn't have married him, that's a no-go in my book.~

Describe a perfect romantic evening. I don't have one, I am not romantic and neither is he. LOL

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