Adult videos for married couples?

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Registered: 03-10-2007
Adult videos for married couples?
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Mon, 03-12-2007 - 1:34am
Hi, I am happily married, and my husband and I have a great love life. But some nights it could use a boost. So I am interested in finding an adult video for (straight)married couples. I don't want it to be all out porn; no fake huge breast (etc) and the actors on the show to be acting as an actual married couple, If you know of anything please let me know Thank you very much!

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Registered: 03-09-2007
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 7:53am
You could always make your own. The couple would be happily married, no faking, and it could be an interesting way to connect. Maybe a few giggles!!!!
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Registered: 11-13-2006
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 11:45am

There are a number of films that are made for couples. Films like "Kama Sutra" have both story and a sensual theme.

Check out Penthouse reviews for film content and the better quality adult video stores have order catalogues that can give ideas about twhat the market offers. On-line ordering works as well but check out the reviews because many clips do not do a good job of portraying actual content.

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Registered: 11-30-2004
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 11:48am
we (DW& me) did this ONCE, i thought it was going to be this big turn on,until i seen myself on tape.( not that I'm the Elephant man or anything,but just watching myself having sex just didn't float my boat so to speak)and i know i wont be quitting my day job anytime soon!
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Registered: 11-15-2006
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 4:15pm
We just purchased a lovely couples' video, Matt and Khym, a Couple's Story. Really more of a documentary of a couple-they tell about thier long term relationship and how thier sex life evolved. It is interspersed with scenes of them making love and the end is thier entire love making session. Real people that we felt we could relate to, sweet cinematography, REAL bodies and intimacy. We watched it the first time up until the love making session and of course that lead to us having sweet sex. The next time we watched only the love making session and that was arousing too!!Nice change from PORN, this was more reality erotica.



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Registered: 10-14-2006
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 4:22pm
I have to strongly recommend the making of your own video. My husband and I have made a number of them, and it really is a turn on. There is just something about the 'realness' of it, the idea of watching yourself from a different perspective. Who cares what your body looks like, it's you! and your husband certainly doesn't mind the real you, why would he mind the on screen you? Try different things, role playing, costumes, etc. If you have a trusting friend you could enlist a camera-person for different angles. (we haven't gotten to that point yet, but it has been discussed.)

Farmer's wife and mother of four, blessed and grateful.

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Wed, 03-14-2007 - 11:55am

I totally agree. I'm a pretty good looking and confident dude, but seeing myself on video just gave me the heebie jeebies. It was in NO WAY, arousing to me at all. Now I can think about having sex with DW and get very aroused by it, but I never wanna see it on video.

 

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Registered: 03-10-2007
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 4:20pm
Thanks everyone!! You have all been helpful, idk if we will try the 'making our on video' yet but maybe later..;) livingproof123.. Was the name of the great video you talked about "Matt and Khym, a Couple's Story." ? I might try that one! Thanks A Lot!!
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Registered: 11-15-2006
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 4:34pm

Yes, I got it from Amazon.

Matt and Khym: Better Than Ever (Real People, Real Life, Real Sex series) by Tony Comstock (DVD - Jan 3, 2007)
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Kind of pricy but definately not sleezy-cheezy porn. I get all warm thinking about how sweet our love making was after watching it.



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Registered: 03-10-2007
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 4:35pm
Ok I looked it up nevermind!! lol! Unless this is wrong "Matt and Khym: Better Than Ever" (Comstock Films)
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Registered: 03-10-2007
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 4:37pm
Oh!! I just saw your post! lol thanks for the great information!! Yeah I dont want anything sleezy or cheesy!! haha

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