Am I obsessing about oral ?

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Am I obsessing about oral ?
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Tue, 11-15-2011 - 8:23am

First let me say hello to my old friends here.

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Fri, 11-18-2011 - 10:45am
Hey there CH, you have been missed!

Sorry to hear ya had some medical things. I know this could put a damper on things. I think we all go thur times of wanting something so bad, but not getting it. I agree with your wife, I won't let my DH come in my mouth either..sorry, just not my cup of tea. He understands it and doesn't push it. I know it's hard on you to not get it, but after 20 yrs you know your wife.

memeu siggy 4-08

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Thu, 11-17-2011 - 6:15pm

I understand your fustration in that oral to completion is a different feeling than IC or a handjob.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 11-16-2011 - 3:34pm

You can't possibly do that, as it is important to you.



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Wed, 11-16-2011 - 12:27pm

She would but that frustrates me.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Wed, 11-16-2011 - 10:03am

I am sorry to hear this. Is it oral all together that she doesn't like? Would she perform oral, and then finish you with a hand job? I know it's not really what you want, but it's better than not getting any, isn't it?



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Wed, 11-16-2011 - 7:33am

First let me thank everyone for their advice.

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Tue, 11-15-2011 - 6:02pm

I can’t explain it either, but I normally go through phases where I desire a particular thing. I’ve joked with my wife about my “fantasy of the week.”

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Tue, 11-15-2011 - 12:52pm

Hey NH.

The it was surprise to her.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 11:28am

Hi there CH. It's good to see you! Sorry to hear there have been medical issues, but glad things are ok.

As for the wife and oral, well, you know I'm going to say that you really need to sit and talk about it. She's never let you get off in her mouth, except for that one time by accident. How was she when that happened? Some women just don't like it. Me, personally, I've never had a man get off in my mouth. Usually it's because they, and I, wanted them inside me.

Why is it getting like this now? Could be because it's not something that has happened frequently, and you're getting older. You know what I mean.



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Tue, 11-15-2011 - 10:54am

She has never let me cum in her mouth.

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