Bringing In A Third Person During Sex

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Registered: 03-27-2005
Bringing In A Third Person During Sex
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Sun, 03-27-2005 - 8:59pm
I've deleted this message because it seems to make a lot of people in this area uncomfortable. I've taken the topic over to the "Taboos" board instead. Thanks to all who replied and I apologize if I've offended anyone.


Edited 3/29/2005 8:43 pm ET ET by leashedtigress

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Registered: 03-10-2005
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 1:47pm
I think a married or unmarried couple bringing in a third person whether its another man or woman is surely going to hurt the existing relationship. There's bound to be jealousy when you really act it out and someone is going to feel left out and its definitely not going to be the outsider, which leaves one of you. This in my opinion is going to cause friction and things might not be the same afterwards. Talking about it or fantasising about it is entirely different to acting it out.
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Registered: 05-04-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 1:51pm

Another angle I think about as I read all this is that for some people living this lifestyle does work - but the relationships starts OUT this way -


I really feel like there will be issues - however unexpected and however much you think you can think this through - that are going to arise after you've been in a committed, safe, secure, relationship and then try to open these doors.... the doors to me should remain closed.


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Registered: 10-31-2003
Tue, 03-29-2005 - 2:45pm
We would like to encourage everyone to please continue this discussion on the Taboos

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