Date Nights??

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Date Nights??
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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 4:32pm

Do you have a 'set' date night??


Do you have a set night to have sex?


What about set "girl night out" or "guy night out"


What do you do on your 'nights out'??


What do you do to get ready for your "sex nights"


memeblue

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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 4:38pm

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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 4:51pm
No, we don't have any planned nights for anything. That would be too complicated around here. Plus, I am just a more spontaneous person. We do each go out with friends without each other. Again, there's never a set plan for activities. I used to just go to some bars I like, but a lot of my friends and I are trying not to drink so much. I'm meeting a friend for shopping and dinner on SAT, but I am still not feeling well. I can't eat gluten now and she has blood sugar issues so I have no idea what we'll eat. Could turn out badly.
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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 5:02pm

Do you have a 'set' date night?? We don't usually have a "set" date night, but we try to do something together at least 2 or 3 times per month. Usually we arrange them for when my kids are at their dad's. Then we only need to get rid of his daughter.

Do you have a set night to have sex? We actually do have a sort of schedule. Ex is here with my kids on Tuesdays and Wednesday nights. Those are our nights to go to bed "early". we also are in the habit of setting the alarm a bit earlier on Sat. and Sun. mornings.

What about set "girl night out" or "guy night out" No "set" nights. Those are much more random.

What do you do on your 'nights out'?? Dh and I usually do dinner, maybe a movie. Sometimes we go book shopping at Borders.

What do you do to get ready for your "sex nights"? Sometimes, I'll put on my fancier lingerie in the morning and e-mail him to let him know what "color" I'm wearing;) On our "sex afternoon" this weekend, I came downstairs in maribou heels, a set of green bra & panties with a Patriots long-sleeve jersey. I asked him if he'd rather watch football or entertain me. Guess which one he chose????

eileen

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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 9:12pm
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Thu, 01-15-2009 - 10:02pm

W/we don't have a set date night, though if W/we do go out it will usually be on a Thursday or Friday night. Master doesn't have classes on Fridays, so He doesn't have to be in bed at a set time on Thursday night. W/we usually don't go out on Saturday night since every place is so busy.


Since W/we haven't had sex since sometime in September, W/we definitely don't have a set sex night. I had those with my first husband and I didn't like to schedule sex like that. I prefer it to be more spontaneous.


No, W/we don't have a girl's night or boy's night out, since neither one of U/us really has any friends here. W/we prefer to be with just the two of U/us. Master and I are both loners.


When W/we go out it's usually some place to eat, to go window shopping, maybe to a movie (though W/we go to the movies once or twice a year).


To get ready for a sex night I do whatever Master commands me to do. If He knows that W/we are going to have sex that night He will tell me what to get ready: the candles, ice, whip, toys, etc.