De-lurking and I need some help

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Registered: 11-13-2004
De-lurking and I need some help
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Mon, 01-16-2006 - 3:56pm

Hi All! I am delurking(after lurking for 2 years :blush: ). I've been reading these boards forever. I first came here when my husband made me squirt and I thought he had broken me. LOL! All your expertise has been awesome and I've tried so many of your suggestions. When I married my DH, I was a little naive and he'd been a touring rock musician so obviously he was a little less naive then me.

I am planning a trip for our anniversary and have made the reservations. A beautiful hotel near the beach with huge hot tubs and nice suites. I've gotten some new lingerie and a few toys to experiment with. What if anything am I forgetting? Something to drink, candles???? Any suggestions would be so appreciated. I really want to make this special for him. TIA.

 Michele winter
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Registered: 07-13-2005
Mon, 01-16-2006 - 6:33pm

The something special can be whatever you want! Strip tease maybe? Give him a camera and say he can take pictures of you for 20 minutes, just a few there....


Otherwise, just try to think about how you want the evening to go, in your head....and if there is anything specific. Plan it out in your mind first, then think about it a couple more times. You might remember a few other things you'd like!


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Registered: 11-13-2004
Wed, 01-18-2006 - 12:17pm

Thanks, actually striptease is something he's asked for and I've been a little shy to do. That's actually a great idea. The reason I want this to be so special is he does ALWAYS make certain that I have a great time sexually. That is his enjoyment of sex is seeing me enjoy it. I'm 37 and that's a first for me so it works for both of us.

Just an aside, thanks for the reply and I always notice your signature. Dh and I have a joking top 5 list it's okay to cheat with and Mickey is number one on my list. LOL. I'll let you all know if I manage to be brave enough to go through with the striptease.

 Michele winter
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Registered: 07-13-2005
Wed, 01-18-2006 - 12:23pm

Anytime l8!

Sorry I had to change the siggy, but, our boys are almost in the Super Bowl!


Now....don't you think maybe you should get a real person on this, just in case you meet them, ala that friends episode when Ross meets Isabella Rosellini?


LOL!



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Registered: 11-13-2004
Wed, 01-18-2006 - 12:37pm

Good luck to your boys! I love playoff fever in the kids.

I think I just want to lay with Mickey and hug him anyway. He's just brought me a ton of pleasure through my DS's love of him so when we were goofily making this list I added him to keep the fun level high. For my birthday in August Dh gave me a trip(without him which really was the gift part cus he hates the parks)but made my brother who was going with me act as a chaperone if Mickey and I were alone together. LOL!! Plus I do have 4 other real guys on there.

 Michele winter
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Registered: 07-13-2005
Wed, 01-18-2006 - 1:06pm

That's cute! I love going to the parks, OMG! We got to take our kids (well, the youngest, 3 mos. at the time, was just along for the ride), and DD simply LOVED it. She went on every ride she could go on, and cried not IN the Haunted Mansion....but because she had to leave it! LOL!


There's a small chance I will have some business in Orlando, and hope to drag everyone along! God that would be great!!!