Decent non degrading videos

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Registered: 03-22-2011
Decent non degrading videos
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Tue, 03-22-2011 - 2:13pm

Hi! I was wondering if anyone knows of some good sex videos that me and my hubby could get. We have been married for 11.5 years have always been very sexual until a few years ago..Sadly to say I am getting a bit

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 03-22-2011 - 2:30pm

Hi and welcome.

I don't know about any videos as we don't watch them. Have you tried a google search? Or is there a sex store nearby that you can go in and ask them about? What are some of the things you two have done? Dress-up, blindfolds, ice play, etc?



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Registered: 01-23-2010
Wed, 03-23-2011 - 4:07am
Try looking up "female-friendly" videos. And if you explain what you are looking for to a clerk at a porn shop, they can probably lead you in the right direction.
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Registered: 02-25-2010
Wed, 03-23-2011 - 4:41am

We always watch a hardcore sex DVd before and during sex. We don't care about a plot since most plots in porn are corny-just sex. We find it quit a turn on. DW likes watching as much as I do.

We have found that many online sites have good reviews and

Oldkinky
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Registered: 01-04-2007
Mon, 03-28-2011 - 4:28pm

Supposedly videos by Candida Royalle are more woman friendly.

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Sun, 04-03-2011 - 10:30am

Hi!

There are more things in Heaven and Earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy.

- Hamlet

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Registered: 08-08-2011
Thu, 08-11-2011 - 1:37am

Hello,

I know what you mean. I'm a man but all those rough porn you can find on internet or video or dvd is a huge turn off to me also. And even more to my DW.
It is not appealing to see how people use each other ruthlessly for their own pleasure. We don't consider ourself oldfashioned, bet we just don't like that wild and, as you said, gross porn.
I like naked erotic photos if they are tasty and DW likes movies which are on relationships (some sexualitiy is turn on for her).

So we have search the internet and found quite some movies, which are not hard porn. More like educational or documtary videos or naked yoga or something like that.
If you want, you can search for: Better sex video series (more series) or Lovers guide (more series), or Better sex through Yoga. Maybe A girls guide ti 21st Century Sex (8 parts).

Maybe you coul search www.imdb.com for keyword Erotic or romantic or something else and then get movies from your local store, library or video rent.

Hope it helps and you'll get the right thing...

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Registered: 08-07-2011
Thu, 08-11-2011 - 8:19am
See attached...is this kind of what you're going for?


http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-soft-core-porn-is-the-new-hardcore-porn/

I actually really enjoy harder porn as I don't mind anal, cum shots, penis shots, penetration etc but there is even a line I draw. For instance drinking cum from several diff men out of a cup or example, just eww.
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Registered: 11-02-2009
Thu, 08-25-2011 - 12:34pm
some of the x art is good. you can find it for free
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Registered: 03-18-2008
Sat, 09-03-2011 - 9:50am

A couple that we like are "Chameleons, Not the Sequel" and "Every Woman Has a Fantasy 1". I especially like Every Woman as the leading couple seem to have a real chemistry, the acting is good (for a porn movie) and it is actually funny. It's anolder movie made in the '80s so everyone is very natural. Have fun.

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Registered: 01-04-2006
Sat, 09-03-2011 - 12:01pm

Have you tried making and watching your own videos?