Do all couples have a free sex list???

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Registered: 09-27-2005
Do all couples have a free sex list???
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Sun, 10-23-2005 - 6:01pm

My DH and I each have a fantasy list of unattainable sex partners that would be a freebe
if the opportunity arose. I thought we were the only ones until it came up at work and it seems like every couple have them. Who is on your lists??

My list in no particular order is:

1. Patrick Swayze
2. Billy Ray Cyrus
3. Ben Affleck
4. Rex Smith
5. David Cassidy

No laughing girls.

DH's list:

1. Shakira
2. Mariah Carey
3. Leah Remini (wife from King of Queens)
4. Patricia Heaton (Wife from Everybody Loves Raymond)
5. Halley Berry

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-24-2005 - 10:00pm

My list
My wife
My wife
My wife

Her list
Me
Me
Me

I guess "to each his own"!!

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Registered: 10-18-2005
Tue, 10-25-2005 - 1:04am

indi-
we also have our lists.
HIM: christina ricci, jessica alba, wynnona ryder
me: some guy from a gap commericial (never underestimate the power of blue jeans, lol), the guy who plays doctor jack on lost, and.... hmmmmm.... ~taps her forehead~ ....john mayer.

part of the beauty of these lists is they're always subject to change and never really have to worry about it happening. mostly use it as a gauge as to what's turning DH on lately.
-lil

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Registered: 04-08-2005
Tue, 10-25-2005 - 1:12pm

I don't have a list, although thinking about Patricia Heaton would make it if it existed. So would Sela Ward.

DW has my permission to leave me for either Mel Gibson or Dennis Quaid.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 5:18pm
Sorry I dont put people on a pedestal. Just because some human is known by a lot of people is no excuse for infidelity.For us it is black and white, no gray area.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 9:58pm


I don't think anybody is actually talking about infidelity, its just fantasy play. Clearly its not a game for every couple, but there's nothing wrong with that either.

I totally agree with Yum-Yum, half of the fun is changing the lists whenever the mood strikes...

for me (this week): Katherine Heigel (from Grey's Anatomy), Salma Hayek, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Gabrielle Union and Eva Longoria.

for DW: Edward Norton, Paul Rudd, Denzel Washington, Taye Diggs, Luke Wilson.

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Registered: 09-19-2005
Thu, 10-27-2005 - 5:39pm
Two different men named Patricia Heaton!! I HATE her!! To each their own, I'd cancel my dh's list if she was on there, lol!!
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Registered: 07-13-2005
Fri, 10-28-2005 - 9:50am
Seriously!!! Patricia Heaton? On a fantasy list?

Is she like the one
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Registered: 04-08-2005
Fri, 10-28-2005 - 11:21am
In many ways Patricia Heaton reminds me of my DW. I even noticed an uptick in Deborah's sex drive the last year of the show (although not as dramatic as my DW's).
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Sat, 10-29-2005 - 6:48am
Heck, no. Patricia Heaton is hot!!!
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Registered: 07-14-2003
Sun, 10-30-2005 - 11:55am

Gee, I've never thought about a list. There are men whom I think are attractive Johnny Depp, Sam Elliot, and Robert Downey, Jr. come to mind), but that's a far cry from wanting to have sex with them! As boring as this sounds, my husband is my fantasy guy...his name is on every number on any list. Yeh, sometimes when we're 'doing' it, I might think about another man, but it's almost always someone I know, not a celeb. DH has a list - me, me, me, and me :-). He thinks Jodie Foster is great, but he doesn't think of her as someone he'd want to have sex with.

To each his or her own.

Judy





Judy 

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