Do you mind being woken up for sex?

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Do you mind being woken up for sex?
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Thu, 04-07-2005 - 11:01am

Do you ladies and gents mind being woken up for sex?


I don't mind. And that says alot b/c anyone who knows me will tell you sleeping is VERY HIGH on my list. Especially with a one year old and a full time job and a DH in college.


However, if you can do it earlier in the night rather than earlier in the morning.. that's better for me. I get up at 5:30am. So, if you can, wake me up as not close to 5:30am as possible. I like it less when Sean comes for me at 4:45am. UGH.


;-) Make it midnight - that's more romantic anyway.hahahaha

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 10:53pm

No of course I don't mind being woken up for sex, especially since I prefer morning sex. Not only am I at peak, but my husband is too. But then again, I am not too picky, since I am the one who initiates sex about 75% of the time. But he thinks it is sexier that way:D

Here is a good question to add to this one...Who initiates sex in your relationship? You or your significant other?

Have fun,
Jaimesto

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Registered: 07-20-2004
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 11:15am

Hey

I wish she would wake me up.... DW tells me she wakes up sometimes & is turned on and she goes back to bed or goes downstairs. She wont ever take care of business (masturbate) herself & Ill usually find out about her nightime hornyness a few days later while talking after sex.

If I woke her up , whoooo, big trouble for everyone in the house and probably everyone on the block.

Timmay

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Registered: 01-24-2005
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 4:41pm
I tried to wake my DH this morning. Bad timing on my part! He is a CPA so this week is crazy busy for him. I thought (since he works late and pretty much goes straight to bed when he gets home) I could catch him in the morning. I have never known him to turn down sex of any kind. Poor guy is exhausted!! We'll just have to catch up this weekend. Although, his parents are in town this week too....we'll just have to be sneaky :o)
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Registered: 05-12-2004
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 11:10am
Well, I think I'd love it but can't say for sure because it's never happend and is not real likely to happen (she wouldn't think to try).
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Registered: 01-24-2005
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 1:03pm
Sorry to hear that xisummit. Is it selfishness or is she conservative? What would she do if you were to wake her?
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Registered: 03-15-2005
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 1:26pm
I don't mind being awakened, as long as I've been getting some good sleep. The only bad part is after sex, I'm energized, and then it's extremely hard for me to get back to sleep.
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Registered: 05-04-2003
Thu, 04-14-2005 - 1:38pm

Welcome to the board jaybird bunny!


Sneaky sex is sometimes the best. The we could get caught element!



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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 1:39pm
Does she know it's something you think about?


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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 1:41pm

Welcome nslods.


You could do what I do. Not REALLY wake up. Haha.


THe last two nights I have been aroused (from sleep) by my DH touching on me and just brushed him off and I think last night I actually said "get away" - I have been really tired!!


Also, when he's cuddled up on me it's REALLY HARD to get out of bed in the morning.



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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 2:57pm

"Sorry to hear that xisummit. Is it selfishness or is she conservative? What would she do if you were to wake her?"

She does not wake up in a good mood under most circumstances, let alone if I intentionally interrupted her sleep. Early on in our marriage (before I grew my fresh new brain) I tried many times and the results varied from a swat to growling to an elbow ... well, you get the idea. The next AM she typically had no idea it even happened, though she would feel like she did not sleep well.

"Is it selfishness or is she conservative?" Neither in this particular case ....

"Does she know it's something you think about?" By now I suspect she's forgotten all about this. It's been at least 10 years since I was last dumb enough to try.




Edited 4/14/2005 3:02 pm ET ET by xisummit