Do you mind being woken up for sex?

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Do you mind being woken up for sex?
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Thu, 04-07-2005 - 11:01am

Do you ladies and gents mind being woken up for sex?


I don't mind. And that says alot b/c anyone who knows me will tell you sleeping is VERY HIGH on my list. Especially with a one year old and a full time job and a DH in college.


However, if you can do it earlier in the night rather than earlier in the morning.. that's better for me. I get up at 5:30am. So, if you can, wake me up as not close to 5:30am as possible. I like it less when Sean comes for me at 4:45am. UGH.


;-) Make it midnight - that's more romantic anyway.hahahaha

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Registered: 04-07-2005
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 12:35pm
YESSSSSSSSSSSS! I hate being woke up for sex and my dh knows this. He loves morning sex and I like right before we go to bed sex, lol. Every now and then I will give it to him in the morning because I know he likes it, but it does not happen often. Maybe once every few months. He knows if he wants it he has to catch me before I get to sleepy or there is no chance. I have a 2 yr old and a 1 yr old and I stay home with them, so by the time I go to bed I am literally dead tired! These 2 wear me out!
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Registered: 06-14-2002
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 12:40pm

My DW can wake me up anytime she is in the mood. However, I tend not to wake her up because of several things. First when she is tired, she is alot harder to get aroused and it is harder for her to have an orgasm. Second, it makes her more tired during the next day and more tense during the day. And with us home schooling 3 children (with a fourth still underfoot), it can make for a long day, which drains my DW mentally and emotionally. That said, there have been times when we both woke up during the night and had a little adult fun before going back to sleep.

CH

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 12:43pm

I love 2am sex! LOL! waking up and just feeling him touching and rolling over and doing!! yes....a few mins of unsleep is worth it!!


Now do alot of 5am sex as well...due to the time he gets up! and I can always go back to sleep afterwards!!

memeblue

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 1:15pm

Yes!!!! Welcome tater! I so agree.


When I say I am going to bed or I am ready for bed.. why does that translate to him as I am going to sex or I am ready for sex? Um, BED - SLEEP!!!!!!


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Registered: 05-04-2003
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 1:16pm

Your respect for you wife and how she feels makes me smile.


Thanks for posting!

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 1:17pm

Memes, you would have sex 24 hours a day wouldn't you? hahaha. Me too - if I didn't have to go to work. Work is getting in the way alot lately!

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Registered: 10-09-2004
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 1:36pm

Not really, but I am getting rather tired of it right now.

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 2:00pm
I don't mind at all...in fact I encourage it!
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Registered: 06-14-2002
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 2:35pm

Now you know why I don't wake her for sex when she is snoring in the easy chair at 9:00 pm

CH

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Registered: 10-16-2004
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 3:24pm

I don't mind being woken up at all...but if you had asked a year ago I wouldn't say that!

Usually its more of a quickie though...then we go back to sleep!

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