Do you mind being woken up for sex?

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Do you mind being woken up for sex?
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Thu, 04-07-2005 - 11:01am

Do you ladies and gents mind being woken up for sex?


I don't mind. And that says alot b/c anyone who knows me will tell you sleeping is VERY HIGH on my list. Especially with a one year old and a full time job and a DH in college.


However, if you can do it earlier in the night rather than earlier in the morning.. that's better for me. I get up at 5:30am. So, if you can, wake me up as not close to 5:30am as possible. I like it less when Sean comes for me at 4:45am. UGH.


;-) Make it midnight - that's more romantic anyway.hahahaha

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Fri, 04-15-2005 - 11:40am
Jennie - you said that perfectly!!
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Fri, 04-15-2005 - 10:11am

Ok, I don't really mind being woken up for sex, but what I do mind being woken up for is random wandering hands and him pulling the covers off me (I sleep under two blankets b/c he likes it cooler and I like blankets so it works) to just touch one breast irritatingly - not even in a good way! GET OFF ME. LOL.


Make your move and get on with it - or leave me alone!



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Fri, 04-15-2005 - 9:47am
It sure was true last night. I think it also helped that we both slept nude (not a everynight occurrence).
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Fri, 04-15-2005 - 9:41am

Question for barrister (and everyone!)

We've found that when we have sex BEFORE we go to sleep--we are more likely to wake one another up for more fun a few hours later--more like a continuation of the fun after a bit of rest....

Is that true for those of you who like to be woken up for sex?

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Fri, 04-15-2005 - 9:06am
Last night DW and I woke each other up around 2 AM for some . And thsis was after having made love around 11PM. Needless to say we're both tired but happy today.
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Fri, 04-15-2005 - 9:05am

"xisummit - you sound so disheartened. (no offense intended)"

No offense taken. Actually I'm not, I just tend to use terminology that is perhaps harsher than reality. I'm also my biggest critic, so those 2 traits often trip me up. At this stage in my life I am actually vary contented now that I better understand the reality of the situation and know what I can and can not expect. I also better understand what I need as opposed to what I want.

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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 3:51pm
xisummit - you sound so disheartened. (no offense intended)
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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 2:57pm

"Sorry to hear that xisummit. Is it selfishness or is she conservative? What would she do if you were to wake her?"

She does not wake up in a good mood under most circumstances, let alone if I intentionally interrupted her sleep. Early on in our marriage (before I grew my fresh new brain) I tried many times and the results varied from a swat to growling to an elbow ... well, you get the idea. The next AM she typically had no idea it even happened, though she would feel like she did not sleep well.

"Is it selfishness or is she conservative?" Neither in this particular case ....

"Does she know it's something you think about?" By now I suspect she's forgotten all about this. It's been at least 10 years since I was last dumb enough to try.




Edited 4/14/2005 3:02 pm ET ET by xisummit
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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 1:41pm

Welcome nslods.


You could do what I do. Not REALLY wake up. Haha.


THe last two nights I have been aroused (from sleep) by my DH touching on me and just brushed him off and I think last night I actually said "get away" - I have been really tired!!


Also, when he's cuddled up on me it's REALLY HARD to get out of bed in the morning.



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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 1:39pm
Does she know it's something you think about?


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