Does he know how much you masturbate?

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Does he know how much you masturbate?
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Tue, 03-29-2011 - 11:25am

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Tue, 03-29-2011 - 1:38pm

I have tried masturbating, without hubby's knowledge. Is there a particular reason for your question?



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Registered: 01-15-2005
Tue, 03-29-2011 - 5:47pm
Yes my hubby knows I masturbate. I also know he dose too.
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Registered: 03-30-2011
Wed, 03-30-2011 - 1:10am

I'm not married... But my question is if you both masturbate, Why don't you just have sex with each other? I'm so curious because wouldn't it be better than just using your hand?? LOL

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Registered: 01-15-2005
Wed, 03-30-2011 - 9:09am

Hi anggiegirl

We masturbate if or SO is not around or available. It is also a enjoyable for of pleasure that is different from sex with each other.

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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 11:15am
being married doesn't mean you dont' masturbate. Every couple does for different reasons.

sometimes after he leaves to for work, and he kissed me so much I just have to. I can't wait for him to get home at 6pm...so I do it. nothing wrong with it. Im sure my DH does it in the shower some mornings. he knows I don't sleep well and Im sleeping good when he gets up, he wont wake me up for sex so he will do it in the shower. its all good

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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 11:17am
we dont really talk about it with each other, I know he does and he knows I do. thats all it is to it! LOL!

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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 4:12pm

Oh ok that clears it up then... I was just so curious because I am in a really good relationship and my boyfriend lives an hour and a half away and comes to see me once or twice

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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 5:15pm

kat-tie2005 said:

We masturbate if or SO is not around or available. It is also a enjoyable for of pleasure that is different from sex with each other.

liberty says:

I totally agree with this as long as masturbation does not interfere with the relationship.

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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 5:30pm
what you dont' know is Im handicaped and don't sleep but maybe 2 hours at a time, so when I am sleeping soundly, waking me up is not good. I dont mind being woke up, its just that he knows how bad a night I had and will not wake me up.

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Thu, 03-31-2011 - 5:33am

Yes. Almost our masturbation is mutual. We begin all our sex activities begin with mutual masturbation usually while watching hardcore porn together.

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