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Registered: 11-17-2005
Ever used or heard of .......
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Mon, 12-12-2005 - 1:52pm

Better Sex C&^% Rings? This one had a mini vibrator at the end too! Reason I am asking is b/c after looking at the online sites (that everyone graciously supplied to us -THANKS!) this weekend with my DH for a "toy," I believe we have taken a step back! After seeing how "realistic" the toys looked my DH made comments about him being replaced! I assured him that wasn't the case, but still .......... So, now I am looking for something not so "realistic" or "something for both of us." This ring is for both of us and I thought it looked "interesting!" Has anyone used one before, and if so, are they any good?

Thanks!

 

 

 

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Registered: 11-20-2005
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 2:47pm
Hey! We tried one of those rings with the silver bullet attached and hubby did not like it. He found the ring was way too small and although we were told you can stretch it over, there was no way it would work. DH is a bit larger than average but not Omigod huge so I don't think that was the problem. I guess you have to use your own judgment and find a brand you think would work. Also, what about one of the toys that doesn't look like the real deal? The little lipstick shaped one could be used on you by him and seems cute rather than intimidating. Or you could use something like furlined handcuffs to start and then once he sees how much you enjoy it he may be open to moving on to something else.

 

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Registered: 11-17-2005
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 4:47pm

It's funny b/c I seem to take what I think is a HUGE leap forward only to take two GIANT steps back! I saw the lipstick shaped one too and thought it didn't look realistic or intimidating! And I guess I'm being somewhat picky or selective b/c I really don't think I would like the vib that looks like the "Washington Monument!" (But I could be wrong!)

Anyway, as far as the "cuffs" go - I really haven't given much thought to that situation. I guess you could say I'm just really starting to "explore" my inner thoughts, needs and wants. Perhaps I will mention the "cuffs" to him tonight and see what type of reaction I get from that!

Thanks tr1720 for your input! I greatly appreciate it.

 

 

 

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Mon, 12-12-2005 - 5:17pm
Have you thought about one of the slimmer "bullet" vibes? Those are more for external stimulation than using inside. They might not be as intimidating....
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Registered: 11-17-2005
Mon, 12-12-2005 - 6:17pm

Yeah, I saw them but....... I really want something that can be used both ways! Does that sound right? I guess I need to stop "tip toeing" around this subject and go for the "shock and awe!" Or maybe I should just let things die down and then bring it up again after the holidays. He gave me his devious little smile when I brought up the subject of toys, which I thought was a green light, but now.........

At least now I have sites and research! Thanks for mentioning the "bullet!"

 

 

 

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Registered: 11-20-2005
Tue, 12-13-2005 - 11:19am
Okay, here's the plan... one night while DH is watching t.v., go take a warm bath, slip on a sexy nightie, lights some candles in your bedroom (so you aren't totally exposed under glaring lights) then call him in and let him see you use your new toy. Have a glass of wine first if you need to. I know, it's out of your comfort zone but push yourself!!