Faking It

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Faking It
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Sun, 03-06-2005 - 12:26pm

Have you ever faked it? Do you think your love knew? What made you make the conscious decision to fake an orgasm? Can men fake an orgasm???


Can He Tell if I’m Faking


Curiuos about what you all think of this!!!


Jennie

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Registered: 05-04-2003
In reply to: jenniemadsen
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 12:29pm

I have faked it. Several times.


The reason?


I know it would make my DH upset to know that I hadn't gotten there. And he wouldn't understand why. And he doesn't understand no matter how hard I try to explain that I am OK without it sometimes.


Would he be mad? Probably not. But I think he would be suspicious of any "real" O's.. haha. Needless to say, I have not faked it in prob 2 years. It was mainly back when I was taking some medicine that really zeroed my sex drive.


And no, he wouldn't be able to tell.


I think he COULD fake it - and I wouldn't know - unless we were doing the pull and pray and then it'd kind of be obviuos... lol... but I don't know if he ever has.

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 4:47pm

Have you ever faked it? Unfortunately yes, years ago.


Do you think your love knew?

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 10:43pm

Yes, I've faked it.....particularly when I was with a neurotic guy who wanted me to orgasm during intercourse. LOL

Never done it with my DH. I don't need to because he never puts pressure on me to orgasm.

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:28am

YOu know - I wish we could educate more men that not all women - in fact less than majority - of women can orgasm DURING intercourse without some external stimulation...


Of course, I am all for them trying... hehehe... but be realistic and if it ain't happening don't force it - just change techniques!


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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 12:01pm

Have you ever faked it?


Never.

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 10:27am

>Can men fake an orgasm???
If there's a way, I don't know it. Yeah, a guy can twitch the member something like how it pulses during orgasm, but how does a guy fake the ejaculate filling and running out?

I also don't understand why women would need to fake it, and why so many women have difficulties with the vaginal orgasm? I've known many, many women and all have vaginal orgasms without direct clitorial stimulation and a majority ejaculate. Simply study female anatomy, physiology, and with her feedback on what she likes, move male member appropriately.

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 3:36pm

"I also don't understand why women would need to fake it, and why so many women have difficulties with the vaginal orgasm? I've known many, many women and all have vaginal orgasms without direct clitorial stimulation "

Are you sure they are not faking it? Maybe not understanding is why women would fake it?
Do you make a women orgam every time?

I am not picking on you, just playing devils advocate. :)

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 6:41pm

>Do you make a women orgam every time? I am not picking on you, just playing devils advocate. :)

Hi Advocate - Every time is 99% of the time and with many partners. Woman are capable of experiencing much more pleasure than men. Study the physiology of a woman's excitement, sensations, etc. Read a woman's emotions as to what she needs/wants/desires at that instant and act upon it. Make it fresh, sensuous, and exciting for the woman. Maybe they are faking it when muscle contractions start in the back and their power forces me out, legs and stomach muscles quiver uncontrollably for many minutes, liquid squirts out at me, eyes roll up and flutter, etc.

I never make a women orgasm. I only help with holding, kisses, touching places together with her, teaching her things she might not know, and moving it inside as her emotions/body are telling me. My reward is being there as a woman shares all the incredible sensations she can experience.

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 9:49pm

How many other woman read this post and were jumping up and down, waving their arms, and shouting as loudly as possible "me, me, me, I want to be next"?

I promise I don't fake it!

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 10:02pm

MOrse you took the words right out of my mouth. ;-)


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