Faking It

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Faking It
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Sun, 03-06-2005 - 12:26pm

Have you ever faked it? Do you think your love knew? What made you make the conscious decision to fake an orgasm? Can men fake an orgasm???


Can He Tell if I’m Faking


Curiuos about what you all think of this!!!


Jennie

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Registered: 02-28-2005
In reply to: jenniemadsen
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 9:34am

AAAHHHH, You guys are too funny!!!

-Pam

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Registered: 09-02-2004
In reply to: jenniemadsen
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 10:38am
Pam - that was one of the hardest things for me to realize with my DW at first - that she fully enjoyed herself EVERY time we made love, whether or not she had an orgasm or not. Sometimes I'd get the tap on the shoulder while I was down there, and I could feel my penis start to get soft, because I thought I was failing at pleasuring her! But after a couple times and a couple conversations, I grew to understand her body, and now I am SO confident with her, and it makes things much better. I don't mind at all if I get the tap, because I know that she tried but couldn't and now she wants me to be inside her. Plus, she knows that there isn't any pressure to come every time, nor does she ever feel the need to fake it. Our sessions are much more real for that.....
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Registered: 07-06-2004
In reply to: jenniemadsen
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 6:23pm

>I was mostly wondering because SOME guys can either...

Life has taught me a woman wants the satisfaction of orgasm(s) as much, or more, than a man does. I have learned a woman's body is capable of experiencing much more pleasure than a man's body. Make the earth move for a woman, and she'll return more pleasure to a man than he can imagine.

>1. SOME guys can be cocky and think they know,
Of course a woman knows more about what and when, but a guy should use his imagination and set the mood for her arousal. From foot massage, hot towels, kisses on her feet... to candle light... to kissing, touching, worshipping her body and who she is... to following her gut emotions, feelings, words, and moans to build her desire... always keep it new and fresh for her, like it's the first time. When the lady makes it known it's time for the main event, and the organs are in position and barely touching, a man should not enter for a time. Let the woman know whose member it is and it is he, the man, who is in control of the male organ, and not her. Women love to anticipate, and don't enter her until she is more aroused than she's ever been. Hold, kiss, touch, love and embrace her like she's the last woman on earth, but if there is any faking, then it's the man who pushes, or 'fakes', entry but does not yet enter her. Let the woman know she is with a powerful and fully erect male who could enter her at any time. Only, long after her begging begins, and she's more engorged and wet than anytime in her life, very slowly give her one-half inch then back out. With the swollen and engorged organs barely touching, show the woman the strength of a man's arm by reaching under her shoulder, pull her up, tightly embrace her to the muscled chest, tell her how precious and valuable she is, and share a deep passionate kiss. Or, reach under and lift her pelvis up to show her she is with a strong and powerful male who will share his swollen organ when he chooses. There are a thousand things, but always keep the genitals barely contacting. Slowly give her one inch this time, and take it back. Let the woman know if she totally surrenders herself to the lovemaking, the man will take her to wonderful places she's never been before....

>2. think a woman has to as much as a man needs to and can get sore if we keep trying.
If a woman gets sore or doesn't get hers, something is not being done correctly. Properly aroused and stimulated with foreplay and fiveplay, 99% of women easily orgasm faster than a man can. It vastly helps if the woman is first fully aroused. A man should never use the male organ to make a woman sore, but by properly following a woman's body queues, use it to bring her to the point of 10-20 minutes of stomach to leg quivering orgasms and a couple ejaculations.

A woman can have less patience than a man, and want to commence intercourse to early to get to the point of continuous orgams and ejaculation. It is up to a man to deny her penetration until she is sufficiently aroused so she can get there.

Just my $0.02.

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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: jenniemadsen
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 11:29pm

Well being a guy its really hard for me to fake it since I leave something behind when I orgasm. If there are guys that can I would like to know how. My DW has to go to the bathroom afterwards or "it" falls out.

I can tell when she does. Back when we were dating she tried to a couple of times and I could tell ( she is quite vocal so its hard for me not to know). I just honed my technique and she has never had to again.

mb

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In reply to: jenniemadsen
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 3:27pm

I just have two thing to add to the conversation,...


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-Pam

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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: jenniemadsen
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 5:55pm
OH BROTHER..Sumbody please tell Sumguy not all women are squirters..lol
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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: jenniemadsen
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 6:12pm
Awww......come on Humpdaddy, and totally crush the fantasy?
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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:34pm

Yes soreness is an issue - and sometimes the feeling of him in me is what I actually need.


Jennie

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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:35pm

LMAO at a tap on the shoulder.. I try and be more creative like that - by maybe grabbing his hair and dragging him up to me b/c I just have to have him NOW!


Jennie

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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:37pm

Thank you for taking the time to post for us Sumguy!


Jennie

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