fantasize about other men?

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fantasize about other men?
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Mon, 08-22-2011 - 12:12pm

married women out there, does your spouse know that you fantasize about other men? if so, do you ever add it to your fantasy/sex life?

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Registered: 08-16-2011
Mon, 08-22-2011 - 1:14pm
Can't really say, but I'm a male, not married. When my partner and I have sex, at times I do wonder what she might be thinking about. Hopefully not "what color paint should we use for the ceiling...."
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Registered: 01-03-2007
Mon, 08-22-2011 - 4:02pm

I actually wish she DID fantasize......

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Registered: 12-25-2006
Mon, 08-22-2011 - 9:20pm
megan99999999 wrote:

married women out there, does your spouse know that you fantasize about other men? if so, do you ever add it to your fantasy/sex life?

Honestly, he could care less what I fantasize about.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 08-23-2011 - 2:00pm
This..... lol

moonlightnroses wrote:

Honestly, he could care less what I fantasize about.



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Registered: 08-07-2011
Sun, 08-28-2011 - 6:54am
lmao this is funny.

Yes. My husband is well aware I fantasize about other men. And women. And men AND women. And sex. In general. Of any kind. With any person.

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Registered: 08-29-2011
Mon, 08-29-2011 - 5:47am
yes I fantasize. No he doesn't know. I have to fantasize, since he just lies there and doesn't move. :(
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Registered: 11-02-2009
Mon, 08-29-2011 - 10:41am

I would guess that most people fantasize.

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Registered: 05-23-2011
Mon, 08-29-2011 - 12:13pm

Like the poster above was trying to suggest.

It is completely normal for you or any of us really

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Registered: 01-30-2011
Thu, 09-01-2011 - 3:57am
I'm pretty sure he knows I do. I'm pretty sure he does too. However, I don't throw it in his face. I fear he may feel inadequate about pleasing me and what not.
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Registered: 05-23-2011
Fri, 09-02-2011 - 11:50pm

You do not consider this cheating may I ask?

If I was with a woman and she was even thinking about other guys I would feel much more than inadequate.

Fantasies in general are important and great but fantasizing about someone else when you are in a relationship is a little different.

Just curious.

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