a few man quesitons....

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a few man quesitons....
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Tue, 08-24-2010 - 7:56am

Men tell us about your lady! what color is her hair??


how long is her hair??


how big are her breast?? less than a handfull, a handfull, more than a handfull??


does she wear earing??


what color are her eyes??


what part of her body do you like the best??


what part do you like least??


does she have her nails done??



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Mon, 08-30-2010 - 11:55am
I am not sure but I would think since the goal is for your wife to be able to get over it, it should go the way she wants. And since she cries and asks you not to bring up AP's name, sounds to me like she already knows and doesn't want to hear any more. That's my read on it but I could be all wrong. Good luck.
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Mon, 08-30-2010 - 11:43am

Hey Nosy,

You are exactly right. It's more than unrealistic to put that kinda of pressure on one person. I've always been a loner, so I must be more needy on my few friends.

And it's a cosmic understatement to say my wife has been a better spouse than I have been to her. Whenever I bring up this womans name my wife either reacts with anger or tears or both. And tells me not to mention her name. She already says she knows I've been with this woman and forgives me. We moved and now live 700 miles away.

I have feebly denied a physical relationship to my wife. Although this woman has openly flirted with me (her husband knows as well) and her looks make it difficult to believe she would be turned down. Especially with the ups and downs my wife and I have had.

I've been cheated on before, but I don't believe by my wife. Finding out the truth never helped me. And my affair is over. I'd appreciate your thoughts. Telling my wife at this point would accomplish what?

Thanks for taking the time to help.

You want it to be this way, but it's that way.
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Muddy Waters
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Mon, 08-30-2010 - 9:23am

It really is kind of unrealistic how one person is supposed to fill all of our needs, especially when they just can't. Sometimes it is just hard. Your wife knows? Who will you talk to now? (Sorry, I'm nosy).

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Mon, 08-30-2010 - 9:17am
Thank you. I've been on these boards for years. I just checked out this one to see if/how I can talk to my wife about being a little less conventional in bed. No complaints other than I'd like some dirty talk. She says she's a doer, not a talker. I really shouldn't complain. But I am crazy about sex.
You want it to be this way, but it's that way.
"You Cant Lose What You Never Had" ---

Muddy Waters
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Mon, 08-30-2010 - 9:13am

Why? Well I shouldn't have. But it lasted 4 years.

my wife and I have no real emotional friendship. Although she is very sweet. My xAP was someone I talked to for hours. My wife and I, while we get along without too much drama, just don't talk. I've brought this up for many years. She apologizes and says she is boring and stupid. Not true. She is a CPA who is oblivious to all except her job, our kids and having sex with me everyday. (yes not
bad). Could she tell you who our vice president
is? Lebron James, Bret Farve, David Bowie, what's in the newspaper? Nope. Really.

So like a selfish bastard I found a women to talk to. Who happens to be our old neighbor, who,s kids play with our kids. And she could easily be a bikini model. should i describe her too? And she is scary smart, funny and f'in wild. But I wouldn't leave my wife, although she wanted to drop the hammer on her husband and kids to be with me for years. I've on these boards for years. I just checked out this one. I'd like to see if I can negotiate my wife into being a little more wild. Like xAP.

You want it to be this way, but it's that way.
"You Cant Lose What You Never Had" ---

Muddy Waters
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Mon, 08-30-2010 - 7:46am

memeblue

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Mon, 08-30-2010 - 7:26am
You mean you like your wife that much and your wife satisfies you
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Sun, 08-29-2010 - 11:26pm
Brown hair below shoulders. Hazel eyes. 5'10" 135 pounds, full C implants. Great ass I love her smile when we make love. 38 years old, we have 3 kids. Beautiful face. I'm a lucky guy. So why am I on EAS too? Should I describe her too? Even better. Ugh, how I sabotage myself.
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Muddy Waters
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Sun, 08-29-2010 - 9:32pm

Hair color: Brown with some gray and thinning


How long is her hair: Short


How big are her breasts: More than a handful


Does she wear earings: No


What color are her eyes: Blue


What part of her body do I like best: None


What part do I like least:

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Sat, 08-28-2010 - 2:11pm
Men tell us about your lady! what l is her hair??brown
how long is her hair??shoulder length
how big are her breast?? less than a handfull, a handfull, more than a handfull??nice handfilp
does she wear earing??yes
what color are her eyes??brown
what part of her body do you like the best??breasts
what part do you like least??tummy
does she have her nails done??yes

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