Getting hit on by strangers

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Registered: 05-28-2011
Getting hit on by strangers
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Thu, 06-23-2011 - 11:57am

Back when I was about 5 months pregnant with our first son I was going through some body image issues and complaining about my weight and size. So my DH got sick of hearing it and sent me out one evening to run some errands at Walmart.

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Registered: 06-24-2011
Fri, 06-24-2011 - 1:17pm
My guy has never done this kind of thing, but I have had two kids and although I recovered greatly after the first (and even had a better body than before)... I have not lost the baby weight with the second and have a definite annoying pooch and my self esteem towards my body has been terrible, especially since my guy doesn't even act like he's interested in me anymore. So when I go out without him, which is a rare thing, I always get hit on and have guys smiling and checking me out. I never do or say anything to them but it gives me the self esteem boost that I need and makes me feel so much better. I love it.
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Registered: 05-28-2011
Fri, 06-24-2011 - 2:45pm

I actually used to be horrified that men sometimes with married women randomly in public, but now I think it's nice.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 06-27-2011 - 8:15am
I think that was nice of your husband. Not all men, just like not all women, get jealous. They trust their partner to not act on it. Personally, there is nothing wrong with flirting, in my opinion. I'm glad this happened and made you feel better about yourself.Deanwith3 wrote:

Back when I was about 5 months pregnant with our first son I was going through some body image issues and complaining about my weight and size. So my DH got sick of hearing it and sent me out one evening to run some errands at Walmart.



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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 06-27-2011 - 8:20am

Why did it used to horrify you? Some people flirt without the expectation that anything is going to happen. It's just all in good fun.

A couple of weeks ago, it was motorcycle week up here. I was standing in line for the ladies room, and this younger gir came up behind me. She started talking, which led it to flirting. I laughed, we joked a bit. When I went back to my husband I was telling him and he laughed too. I pointed her out and he said, she's cute. Want me to go talk to her? Ummm, no that's ok. Then a couple nights later, we went to this other bar, and they were carding everyone, so I had to go back to the bike to get my ID out of the bag. There was a man getting ready to leave and he started talking to me, and saying you better get your id because honey. they ain't never gonna believe you're over 18. I replied with Oh sweetie, I am way older than that, I'm 50. He put his hand over his heart area and said he was shocked. A little more bantering and I went back to my husband who was standing there laughing. My goodness, twice in one week, he says.



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Tue, 06-28-2011 - 4:22am

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Mon, 07-04-2011 - 4:54pm
I went out to a nice dinner a while ago with my wife. She was dressed in a very nice red dress, stockings and a very sexy pair or red patent high heeled pumps.

After dinner we walked back to the hotel and on the way back to our room we stopped in the bar to buy a bottle of wine as we had forgotten to bring one with us and we were planning on being up for a while in the room.

As we ordered the wine at the bar a pretty blondenwoman sitting there immediately noticed the shoes and complemented her on how sexy they were. She then began chatting with my wife and based on the conversation I am positive she was looking for an invitation to join my wife when we headed to the room.

I think my wife is sexy, she is the mother of our children, and I love her. Having a woman hit on her in front of me was something that I never expected would happen...

It made for some interesting conversation as she and I headed off to our room,