is he still attracted to me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-07-2005
is he still attracted to me?
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Thu, 04-07-2005 - 8:56am

How does a woman determine if a man is NO LONGER attracted to her? Been together for 20 years. I am getting the feeling that other things are fueling his sexual drive. Does anyone have any comments whether they are guesses or know facts what the signs are?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2003
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 11:05am

Leslie,


With men and women and relationships being so personal and so different, I don't know if there are any real signs that he is not attracted to you anymore that anyone other than he can tell you.


I know you mentioned his lack of compliments and your concern about his online profile he might have... so what has he said about these things?


I am a huge promoter of going with your gut. Do you think he's not attracted to you anymore? Are you two intimate with each other?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2003
Thu, 04-07-2005 - 11:07am

Okay, I thought some more... and is he acting differently? Does he shy away from your touch? Or not look you in the eye?


I wonder if sometimes when men are going through personal comflict or turmoil, we women take it personally, (I know I do) when they draw away from us and we start second guessing what could be wrong and if you are like me, I think it's ME and my biggest insecurity has to be the reason: my body.


What do you think about that?

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