Hello all..new here

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Registered: 05-02-2005
Hello all..new here
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Tue, 09-27-2005 - 2:26pm
Just an intro :) I have been married for 8 yrs to a great man. We have 2 DD's, 7 and 3, and we live in Montana. I've recently been posting on the mismatched libidos board, and thought I would visit this board to find ways out of my sex slump. I have a low libido, his is extremely high. Other than that aspect. We have a great marriage. We get along, hardly ever fight, love each other, and mesh well in most areas of our lives. I'd marry him again ;)
Anyway..Hello. Looking forward to posting here.
Casey
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Registered: 07-13-2005
Tue, 09-27-2005 - 5:27pm

Welcome!!!!


Feel free to ask any questions and start any posts you want!


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Registered: 09-27-2005
Tue, 09-27-2005 - 6:59pm

Hi Casey,

I am new too. I just found this site yesterday and I signed up today. I'm sure that we will both enjoy the site. Welcome.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 09-27-2005 - 10:36pm

Hello Casey and welcome to SMS baord....


Please jump in anytime and if you have any questions please just ask!!


glad to have you here!


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All sex should be called LovePlay, From the first kiss until the final embrace during after glow. It all part of one big sexual banquet, when you enjoy the banquet the appetizer is just as important and enjoyable as the main course. Michael Castleman.


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memeblue

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Registered: 05-02-2005
Wed, 09-28-2005 - 2:24am
Thanks to all for the WW.
I am pretty good about getting me time. People think I am crazy when I tell them that I love to go to work. I've been working a part time job at night, so DH can have the girls to himself a few nights a week, while I get to leave the house and do something for myself. Even if it is work ;) And on the weekends I leave them with him to do my weekly shopping, or get a hair cut and my monthly massage. DH is really great about not making a fuss when I need to get out and have time to myself. Problem is..we don't get time to ourselves. And when we do, it turns out pretty disappointing. Which is why I'm here. But I'll save that for tomorrow.
TY all..Casey
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Registered: 07-13-2005
Wed, 09-28-2005 - 10:21am
Welcome Gal!

I hope you will find lots of fun and informative things here - feel free to post or start your own thread!

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Registered: 07-13-2005
Wed, 09-28-2005 - 10:24am

Hehe Mamabear - if my DW ever gets back on here, you two probably would have a lot to talk about - lol!

Yes, you're right - it IS important for you two to get out on your own. It definitely is hard when you finally DO it too, since it doesn't happen that often there's a lot of pressure to make it SO special.


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Registered: 03-09-2005
Wed, 09-28-2005 - 12:38pm

Casey - Thanks for your post and welcome.

I'm just curious, what would happen if you guys just went for it. Plan a date (even if it is only in the livingroom after the kids are sleeping), wear something sexy, have dessert and a drink and then went and had some passionate sex. I may be totally off base here, but what if you really geared your self up for it (afterall, it is not terrible - its your husband, you aren't going to the dentist) and then choose to get into it. The first few minutes might be a little uncomfortable or ackward, but you guys would figure it out together. A few candles and some champagne and I bet you guys would have a great time.

Or am I missing things entirely?

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Registered: 05-02-2005
Wed, 09-28-2005 - 12:51pm
Thanks red! You are right on actually.
I have a date planned this Saturday. My mom will have the kids for the night, so we will either go get a play room, or come on home. Not sure which yet. Sex in a hotel room always seems a little more exciting though ;) I'll think I'll start a new thread for my next question..follow me.