HELP!! I want a Julie night!
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| Wed, 01-18-2006 - 3:50pm |
ALRIGHT! If Julie can do it so can Jamie right? (need ur help!)
I totally love oral. Maybe I'm doing it wrong I dunno. It seems like he is happy with the things I do but yet I sense he would like a lot more. Hubby was well blessed with about 8 thick inches erect. Before erection I'm fine! (lol) When he is fully erect, I can only make it about half down. He always says "take it all in for me baby". As I am going down he will thrust upwards and then I back off.I told him that bugged me and he has stopped. When we first got married 9 months ago, I went completely till he came. He freaked out and said NOBODY had ever got him that far before without them quitting. Now I'm the quitter half way through. I wanna be able to do that for him again, seems like I'm holding back for some reason and I dunno why. I guess its a self pity party day cause I feel like I dunno what I'm doing these days and God knows I can't remember what exactly I did that time that made it so awesome for him.
Can somebody help please?
How do I get past the gag reflex?
What are some other techniques to oral that I may not be doing other than the licking and sucking effects?
Jamie
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Jamie,
First of all let me say very few women can swallow an eight inch penis so his expectations may be unrealistic. What I would suggest is combining hand action with the sucking action (may be hard to visualize but I'll try to explain). Basically, a handjob combined with oral to make him feel like more of his penis is being stimulated. Form an "O" with your fingers (thumb and index fingers) and hold that up to your mouth. Slide the penis into your hand and mouth and you can cover much more than with just the mouth alone, also you can then control his depth if he begins to thrust which should help you avoid the gag reflex. With practice you can control the hand an mouth in unison and he will get the sensation of being deeper in your mouth without gagging you. Also, you can add extra pressure with your hand to make him cum in your mouth (if that's what you wanted). Hope this helps a little.
Oh, Jamie we all want those nights!!!! Well, okay, I've had those nights, but that's beside the point - I'm here to try and help you! Remember the word I typed was TRY!lol
Anyway, this is just me and what my DH likes, so you really need to ask him. But anyway, my DH likes when I "handle" his balls, or "suck" them or a combination thereof. Plus, never rule out the backdoor, rubbing between the two has stimulating affects as well. Now, I cannot tell you those affects, some male will have to pipe in (ah, Hun that's when you give your 2 cents), but my DH loves it. Also, my DH always in the heat of it says "tighter!" Of course I know this, but its so fun to tease! HTH!!