HELP THIS NEWLEY WED PLEASE!!

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Registered: 01-25-2006
HELP THIS NEWLEY WED PLEASE!!
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Mon, 01-30-2006 - 3:35pm
I HELP SOMEONE CAN HELP ME PLEASE!I HAVE ONLY BEEN MARRIED FOR 6 MONTHS TODAY, AND I AM OUT OF BIRTH CONTROL AND MY HUSBAND DOEN'T WANT TO USE A CONDOM. I HAVE MADE AN APPOINTMENT TO SEE MY DOC. BUT I CAN'T GET IN TO SEE HIM UNTILL JUNE!!! I AM GOING NUTS BECAUSE I AM SCARED BECAUSE I AM NOT READY TO HAVE CHILDREN WE WANT TO WAIT FOR A WHILE. I QUESS WHAT I AM ASKING IS HOW CAN WE HAVE SAFE SEX AND STILL BE ABLE TO HAVE GOOD SEX. PLEASE ANY SUGGESTIONS WILL HELP!!

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Registered: 11-20-2005
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 4:17pm
No glove, no love! LOL. Trust me, it's a small price to pay if you aren't ready for the little darlings!

 

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Registered: 11-20-2005
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 4:18pm
Okay, that wasn't helping, but it made me laugh. Do you have sexual health clinics where you live?

 

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Registered: 01-25-2006
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 4:28pm
YES BUT THEY ARE NOT THE PLACE WHERE YOU WOULD LIKE TO GO. THEY ARE NOT VERY CLEAN AND IT IS JUST KINA CREEPY AND NASTY. BUT ME AND I HUSSBAND HAVE TALKED ABOUT THAT I JUST WISH THAT THERE WERE SOMETHING EASIER. I'M A LITTLE STRESSED. THANK YOU!!!
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Registered: 11-17-2005
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 4:53pm
Ya know, when I was on BC if I ran out before I was able to see my doctor - I justed called and asked for another month. They would either call an extra in or tell me to swing by the office. HTH

 

 

 

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Registered: 01-11-2006
Mon, 01-30-2006 - 6:04pm
Yuppers same here! If you call and talk to the nurse, tell her your appt isn't till June, but your out of BC then most likely they can have you stop in for a pack or write you a script. REMEMBER!!!!......if you wait too long, just jumping back on the pill won't work. Waiting too long, your gonna have to wait another entire month for it to get back in your system to avoid taking a chance. My whole theory, if he loves you enough and you both want it badly glove=love until your back on the right BC path babes! Good Luck!(This mama has 5 under the age of 8, take it from me girlfriend!)lol
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Registered: 01-25-2006
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 8:56am
THANK YOU SO MUCH I WILL TALK TO MY HUSBAND HE ISN'T GOING TO LIKE IT BUT HE HAS TO LOOK INTO THE FUTURE AND THE FACT THAT NEITHER ONE OF US IS READY FOR CHILDREN YET. I THINK THAT HE WILL UNDERSTAND. I HOPE. THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 1:34pm
I am with the other ladies just call and ask for a few more months or ask if you can drop by the office for a few sample packs(that's what they are for!!!!) And one more thing I have done is the Sponge. I know they took it off the market for awhile but it's back out there at your local drugstore and they are effective and easy to use. Let us know how you do! Good luck.
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Wed, 02-01-2006 - 9:17am
SEE THE THING IS MY NORMAL DOC. HAS JUST RETIRED AND I AM TRYING A NEW DOC. THAT HE THOUGHT ALOT ABOUT. I WOULD CALL AND ASK BUT I AM SURE THAT I WOULDN'T HELP ME ANY. BUT I WILL TELL YOU THAT I WILL GO TO THE DRUG STORE TODAY AND LOOK FOR A SPONGE, I HAVE TO DO SOMETHING BECAUSE I AM JUST NOT READY FOR CHILDEN YET. I WANT TO BE ABLE TO HAVE FUN AND DO THINGS WITH MY NEW HUSBAND. I DO THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOU REPLY. YALL HAVE REALLY HELPED ME.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 02-01-2006 - 9:39am

Your doctor should have a another doc that he said to go to if you needed...call your old doc's number and ask who should you go to.


heres a few articles for you


Can You Get Pregnant While Using a Condom?
Does the Rhythm Method Really Work?
Is There a "Safe" Time to Have Sex?

A Brief Course on Condoms
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/health/articles/0,12747,284395_431244,00.html


heres village Birth Control board....check it out!


I dont know if you know it or not but when you TYPE IN CAPS it is yelling on the boards...I know your not yelling but it would be better if you dont' type in all caps like that!


you might want to check out this post as well....


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlsecretsofm&msg=7566.1


MEME


All sex should be called LovePlay, From the first kiss until the final embrace during after glow. It all part of one big sexual banquet, when you enjoy the banquet the appetizer is just as important and enjoyable as the main course. Michael Castleman.


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Registered: 04-17-2003
Wed, 02-01-2006 - 11:59am

It's simple really, tell him to get over it and use a condom. Yeah, ppl say they're uncomfortable and all, but I've found a few that really aren't that bad and I've found if you put a little astroglide or something slippery on the tip before you put it on, it's much more comfortable.

There is one thing worse than having sex with a condom, not having sex at all.

 

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