Hot tub fun

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Registered: 12-10-2006
Hot tub fun
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Tue, 01-17-2012 - 8:59pm

We just moved into a place that has a secluded outdoor hot tub ...

Any advice from those in the know with hot tubs or pools of their own? We haven't done it in it yet -- what with the chemicals and the point below -- but it can sure warms things up for afterward if we're in the mood.

But also ... the hot tub fits four ... which out to be fun when some good friends from college come to visit, but leads to the whole question of whether suits should be worn. If you were going to hanging out with best friends, what would you be privately hoping for? Do genders matter?

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Registered: 08-28-1998
Wed, 01-18-2012 - 11:15am

First, you should seprate the thoughts of nude use and sexual play with the other couple.

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Registered: 01-03-2007
Fri, 01-20-2012 - 11:31am

We have a hot tub, and I agree with Paul - nudity can be different things. If it happens spontaneously after some drinks, there night be a sexual component, but if talked abotu beforehand and agreed upon, it isn't.

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Registered: 11-06-2009
Sun, 01-22-2012 - 12:23am

As several have pointed out, the lack of lubrication makes vaginal penetration less enjoyable. But you can still have plenty of fun. My wife loves to spread open in front of the jets with her legs up on the edge while I stand behind her propping her up. The loves the jets blowing her vagina while I feel her up and make out with her. You can also sit on the edge while he goes down on you or lean over the edge while he perforns analingus since the water has cleaned you up a bit.

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Registered: 06-14-2002
Tue, 01-24-2012 - 2:23pm

We don't have a hot tub but we do have a pool and during the summer my wife and I sometimes partake when the children are asleep.

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Registered: 11-09-2011
Thu, 01-26-2012 - 12:44pm

Any advice from those in the know with hot tubs or pools of their own? We haven't done it in it yet -- what with the chemicals and the point below -- but it can sure warms things up for afterward if we're in the mood.

But also ... The hot tub fits four ... Which out to be fun when some good friends from college come to visit, but leads to the whole question of whether suits should be worn. If you were going to hanging out with best friends, what would you be privately hoping for? Do genders matter?

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Tue, 02-07-2012 - 4:17pm

They are right about the water washing away the natural lubricants but you can still do it and it does feel good.