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How to ask wife
| Wed, 06-22-2011 - 6:32pm |
Married 17 years. Sex life was pretty good before kids, then a 10 year lull with more dry spells than active. Last year or so we have picked up and things better. She let's me perform oral on her (which she wouldn't for 10 years). However, she only will have sex in missionary position, no oral, nothing new. I've asked about changing positions but she says she doesn't want too. Which causes me not to ask for oral or anything else- assuming a position change is easiest and least threatening request. I asked about using a vibrator ( which I bought and brought home) and she declined. I'd really like her to perform oral on me-big fan. But after being shot down, I really don't know best time/place to ask. Looking for thoughts, suggestions, help
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I know that when I'm already turned on I loosen up and am willing to try things I normally would say no to.
How old are the children? Does your wife work outside of the home? Is she exhuasted by the end of the day? Do you help with chores around the house? Did she ever perform oral on you?
Is it possible to get a sitter for a night or weekend? You make plans for a little get-away. Just the two of you, surprise her. Maybe try talking to her outside the bedroom using "I" statements. I like when ....
lol... Are you using some kind of invisible font?
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