how do you keep it spicey?

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Registered: 08-21-2007
how do you keep it spicey?
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Wed, 07-28-2010 - 3:01pm

Just wondering what you all do to keep your love lives interesting and keep your spouses excited about your relationships.

 

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Registered: 11-15-2009
Sat, 07-31-2010 - 12:47am

my wife and i enjoy texting dirty as well. i usually try and send her pictures of how turned on i am when she's at work. or if i'm working i;ll go to the bathroom and snap a picture for her. we also look at lingerie together, or look at liberator sex furniture and fantasize about where we wanna put it, what are we gonna do etc.

another thing we love to do is when we are having sex, talk about the hot details of one of our fantasies, like what kinda woman she wants in a 3some

looking at new positions online helps too

hope this helps and feel free to a

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Registered: 03-17-2009
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 2:18pm

Good question, I'm always looking for new things, too.


Set out your clothes for the next day or an event and ask him to choose your underwear.


Let him catch you looking at porn on the tv/computer at home


Set the alarm clock a little early and wake him up to have sex


Take a bath and ask him to shave your "strip" once in awhile


At a restaurant, come back from the ladies room and let him peek in your purse to see that you've removed your panties


Ask him to join you on the deck for a beer before bedtime. After talking about your day and winding down, completely undress, sit back down, and fondle yourself until he comes over to help you


If he comes home while it's dark, be waiting on the porch in lingerie for him, ready


When busy getting ready for work, or dinner or whatever, just grope him more often


Find an opportunity for sex in your SUV or truck, if you havent done it in awhile


Role play (one of my favorites)


At a party or gathering, tease him with a little oral in the bathroom or room that the party is not in


Perusing the boards for new ideas will help for sure. These are just a few things I could think of that I've done in the past couple months.

 


 


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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2007
Wed, 08-04-2010 - 3:11pm

Great ideas and suggestions!!!

 

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Registered: 02-02-2004
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 1:44pm

How can I get an appointment in your office? Buy a house in Texas? lol Your husband is a lucky guy- your photo is hot!

How about a remote vibrator and give him the controls?

bsG150
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Registered: 08-21-2007
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 2:43pm

HAHA!

 

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Registered: 03-22-2002
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 6:22pm
All great ideas...Sometime on the way home from dinner I will just tell him outright that I am going to f... his brains out...or I want you to f... me when we get home.....Haven't been disappointed yet


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Registered: 02-02-2004
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 9:35am

No experience with that...try adam and eve .com

bsG150
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Registered: 02-02-2004
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 9:36am
Does he have to make an appointment or can he just "come in" anytime?
bsG150
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Registered: 08-21-2007
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 10:21am
HAHA Brad, you are funny!

 

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Registered: 08-21-2007
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 10:36am
Justine, I like your style!

 

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