how do you keep it spicey?

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Registered: 08-21-2007
how do you keep it spicey?
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Wed, 07-28-2010 - 3:01pm

Just wondering what you all do to keep your love lives interesting and keep your spouses excited about your relationships.

 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 08-13-2010 - 11:46am

Hello Justine


welcome to SMS! happy to have you jumpping in here!


Im MEME the CL here!!

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memeblue

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Registered: 03-22-2002
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 11:52am

I like the office romp you guys had.

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Registered: 03-22-2002
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 11:54am
Telling him what you want or what you want him to do takes a lot of the guesswork out of the evening and heightens the anticipation which can be seriously erotic in nature


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Registered: 08-21-2007
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 12:27pm

details hmmm.... let me remember, LOL!!

 

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Registered: 03-22-2002
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 2:18pm

You guys did it on your desk right?

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Registered: 08-21-2007
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 2:58pm

yep!

 

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Registered: 03-22-2002
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 3:40pm
So are you planning another little secret rendevous with him?

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Registered: 05-09-2002
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 8:44pm

Hi new to the board!

OMG office sex....I think that would terrify me too much as I work in HR a career ending move - and there are WAY too many windows and security lights in our building in the middle of the city lol. I can only imagine getting fired and that does not make it hotter for me wish it did cause sounds great!

I need to try some of these tips. My husband and I have only been married a few months, together for about 6 years. He is easy to please and I get bored very easily. He loves to video tape us and take pictures, so I made him get a super secure encryption on his computer because he travels so much and takes the video to take with him on the road. I think "aren't you bored of these videos by now?!"

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 08-17-2010 - 6:52am

Welcome ldp328,


Glad you jumped in here on SMS! Im MEME the CL here! Welcome!!


Im not sure I would do the office either...my DH works in the hospital, there are way to many running around all the time! LOL!

memeblue



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memeblue

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Registered: 05-09-2002
Tue, 08-17-2010 - 8:19am

Exactly! I would think "I have to fire myself tomorrow because we would fire anyone else..." hahaha

I was a flight attendant for awhile and somewhere I will NEVER have sex is an airplane bathroom. Just doesn't do it for me even thought it was my "office in the sky" so to speak. I'm 5'10" it doesn't appeal to me I haven't seen a bathroom big enough to put my legs somewhere. Or clean enough!!

I love the other ideas though. Great board. My husband and I had great matched libidos for years, but then that darn birth control pill got me going crazy and not in a good way. It also tanked my libido but I stopped taking it a month ago to try to be my "normal self again" and therefore trying to get back into things that I enjoyed before it pounded the sex drive out of me. Therefore I am super thankful to have found this group where everyone is so candid!