How often do U have sex in a week?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-02-2005
How often do U have sex in a week?
38
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 11:17pm

How often do you have sex in a week..... or some kind of sexual activity?


Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-1999
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 11:41pm
It can vary somewhat. At the high end, it will be up to three or four times in one week. At the low end, we have gone up to three weeks without any activity. We are currently trying to make sure it is at least once a week.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2005
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 4:39am
We are in our early 70'S and have sex 3-4 times a week.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 10:06am

debbzy,


each of us are different, I might have it more than that, but doens't mean that your man is over board. each of us have such different lifes, things in our lifes that change every week....from jobs to kids to sicknes to weather. All things change how much sex you have each week.


we could get everyone on the board to say how much sex last week and then next we will all be different. because our lifes are different our wants are different our needs are different.


only you can decide if he is overboard.

memeu siggy 4-08




Secrets of Marry Sex

memeblue

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-02-2005
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 8:10pm

How does one learn if one does not ask?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-12-2009
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 10:47pm

How long has this "lucky guy" been married to you?

I've been married for 13 years to an awesome woman. When we were first married we had sex several times a week (and zip during "that time of the month"). There were only a couple weeks where we did it more than 6 days straight. When we had two little ones I was lucky to have it once a week. Now our kids are 10 and 6, and twice to three times is about average for us.

I used to be very sexually insecure in our relationship. Her sharing herself with me is what made me feel secure. It wasn't until I became more secure in our relationship that I didn't mind skipping days here and there for the more quality "rendezvous". I went from an insecure guy who equated my wife's sexual response as the measure of her love for me to realizing that she loved me even when she wasn't "in the mood".

Me

Life is good... but with God it's even better!
Life is good... but with God it's even better!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2007
Mon, 03-02-2009 - 12:07am
Like Meme said, every couple is different and you should not gauge your relationship compared to everyone else's. For example, Master and I used to have sex every day, sometimes a couple of times a day, when W/we were first together. But that's a normal thing, I think, when you're first having sex with a new person. Then W/we got to an average of about 4 times a week. And W/we were like that for several years. However, in the course of O/our 9 year physical relationship I developed several chronic illnesses. W/we have had sex four times since September. Too much sex or too little sex is what is too much or too little for you and for your SO, not when compared to other people. For some people sex two days a week is more than enough. For some people sex two times a day is not enough. Everyone's libido is different and it changes throughout time, depending on illnesses, stress, children, jobs, etc. If I compared my current sex life with other people's, thinking that 4 times in six months was just horrible, I would've given up a long time ago and saw the relationship as doomed. But it's not. Why not? Because my marriage is not based on sex. It's based on love, understanding, caring. affection and a host of other things.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 03-02-2009 - 7:48am

Hello eyuop!


welcome to SMS! Im MEME the CL here along with Nenu!


"that she loved me even when she wasn't "in the mood". Now thats a

memeblue

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 03-02-2009 - 7:49am
I agree Sister...my marrage is so much more than the sex we have or don't have.

memeu siggy 4-08




Secrets of Marry Sex

memeblue

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 03-03-2009 - 9:58am

Our average is about three times a week. WE do something like play with each other every night and see if it evolves into full blown sex.




-Gerry-








-Gerry-






iVillage Member
Registered: 05-04-2007
Tue, 03-03-2009 - 1:21pm


Agree with eyuop & sisterhoney

~~~

Averages about 1-2 times a week, for 1-2 hours, depending on breaks taken

I've never been able to time it ;-)

The quality of the relationship & the quality of the sex, takes precedence over the number of times

We both masturbate during the in between times, if the mood strikes

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha

Pages