How is your sex life

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How is your sex life
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Thu, 05-21-2009 - 2:16pm

How is your sex life. Are you getting enough sex. Given your schedule/life/etc what would be a reasonable number of times you would like to have sex a week.

Are you sexually compatible with your mate. That is do you want it a similar amount. Do you get what your desire. Is your spouse adventuresome enough or do they want stuff you find objectionable or just unwilling to do. Are you free to express your desires or fantasies

Is sex a source of strength in your relationship or is it a source of friction.

How long have you been together and roughly how old are you 20-30, 30-40 etc

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Thu, 05-21-2009 - 4:07pm
Master and I have plenty of time to have sex; however, I live with several chronic illnesses that interfere with sex. So for those times that I can't fully participate, I can still serve Master with BJs and HJs and the like. I'd like to have sex about 3-4 times a week, but my illnesses don't make that possible. But thank the Goddess I have an understanding Master. He's never known me when I was 100% well. I've been chronically ill since before W/we met 10 years ago.

Since W/we are both kinky and live the BDSM lifestyle, W/we are very compatible sexually. I was previously married to a vanilla man and I will never go back to that. I've always been kinky, so vanilla sex just doesn't do it for me. But Master is a kinky freak like I am. He knows what my limits are and abides by them. He knows what my fantasies are and is more than willing to help me explore them with me.


Sex is a strength for U/us. Since Master is so understanding about my health problems, sex is not a friction for U/us. Sex isn't everything but it's a lot.


I am 48 and Master is 28. W/we've known each O/other for 10 years, I've been collared to Him for 9 years and have been married for 8 years.

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Thu, 05-21-2009 - 4:55pm

How is your sex life. Are you getting enough sex. Given your schedule/life/etc what would be a reasonable number of times you would like to have sex a week.


Yes getting enough sex, some weeks more than others, but its all good!


Are you sexually compatible with your mate. That is do you want it a similar amount. Do you get what your desire. Is your spouse adventuresome enough or do they want stuff you find objectionable or just unwilling to do. Are you free to express your desires or fantasies


Yes we are compatiable, sometimes he wants it more than I and sometimes I wanted more sometimes we both want the same!


Is sex a source of strength in your relationship or is it a source of friction.


Sex is the glue for us, its not the full course but the iccing on the cake.


How long have you been together and roughly how old are you 20-30, 30-40 etc


We have been together almost 30yrs married 29yrs!

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Fri, 05-22-2009 - 1:07am
Lousy. No. Yuck. Friction. Together 24 years, in my 40's.
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Fri, 05-22-2009 - 1:33am

Master and I are in our early 40's. He gets something everyday, bj mostly. We normally have some sort of sex daily (can't wait for the all clear to start that again), either vag or anal, I don't count his morning bj.

Master and I are extremely compatible sexually and in every way possible. I think our Master/slave lifestyle lends itself to greater communication and intimacy. We talk about all aspects of our lifestyle.

We'll be together 21 years this June. I have never regretted a moment of our life together.






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Fri, 05-22-2009 - 3:05am
Welcome to the board, slavek, it's nice to see you over here!






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Fri, 05-22-2009 - 5:19am

**How is your sex life. Are you getting enough sex. Given your schedule/life/etc what would be a reasonable number of times you would like to have sex a week.**

We enjoy wild, kinky sex 3-4 times a week.

**Are you sexually compatible with your mate. That is do you want it a similar amount. Do you get what your desire. Is your spouse adventuresome enough or do they want stuff you find objectionable or just unwilling to do. Are you free to express your desires or fantasies***

Neither of us have any hangups-toys, sex DVD'S, mutual masturbation. oral, fantasize together, etc.

***Is sex a source of strength in your relationship or is it a source of friction.***

Sex is a strength.

**How long have you been together and roughly how old are you 20-30, 30-40 etc**

In our 70's-married 40 years.

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Fri, 05-22-2009 - 7:32am

How is your sex life.
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Fri, 05-22-2009 - 9:22am

How is your sex life.





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Fri, 05-22-2009 - 9:35am


How is your sex life. Are you getting enough sex. Given your schedule/life/etc what would be a reasonable number of times you would like to have sex a week.



Are you sexually compatible with your mate. That is do you want it a similar amount. Do you get what your desire. Is your spouse adventuresome enough or do they want stuff you find objectionable or just unwilling to do. Are you free to express your desires or fantasies


We are pretty compatible. I pretty much get what I desire. DW is adventureous enough to keep it hot and keep it from being plain.
We are free to express to each other without reprisal. It may not happen but we can talk about it.



Is sex a source of strength in your relationship or is it a source of friction.


Its a source of strength.



How long have you been together and roughly how old are you 20-30, 30-40 etc


We have been together and married for 11 years. we are both in out mid 40's






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Fri, 05-22-2009 - 2:34pm
Thanks. I'm glad to have a place like this where I can be open about my lifestyle. I would never go onto some of other boards iVillage offers because I know I'd be flamed.





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