How is your sex life

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Registered: 12-28-2006
How is your sex life
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Thu, 05-21-2009 - 2:16pm

How is your sex life. Are you getting enough sex. Given your schedule/life/etc what would be a reasonable number of times you would like to have sex a week.

Are you sexually compatible with your mate. That is do you want it a similar amount. Do you get what your desire. Is your spouse adventuresome enough or do they want stuff you find objectionable or just unwilling to do. Are you free to express your desires or fantasies

Is sex a source of strength in your relationship or is it a source of friction.

How long have you been together and roughly how old are you 20-30, 30-40 etc

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Registered: 03-03-2008
Wed, 06-17-2009 - 11:16pm

How is your sex life. Are you getting enough sex. Given your schedule/life/etc what would be a reasonable number of times you would like to have sex a week.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 06-17-2009 - 8:36pm

Hello Tball,


welcome

memeblue

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Registered: 06-17-2009
Wed, 06-17-2009 - 5:28pm
My DW and I have been married 28 years...kids are at or near post college age.
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Registered: 07-14-2007
Tue, 06-09-2009 - 12:57pm

Gotta love a quiz!
How is your sex life. Are you getting enough sex.
Fabulous and we are still ( thank god) verging on still having too much sex!

Given your schedule/life/etc what would be a reasonable number of times you would like to have sex a week.
7-14 times a week!

Are you sexually compatible with your mate. That is do you want it a similar amount. Do you get what your desire.
We try to decide sometimes who is hotter- him or I.We have yet to figure it out.

Is your spouse adventuresome enough or do they want stuff you find objectionable or just unwilling to do. Are you free to express your desires or fantasies
My spouse is more adventuresome, creative in bed than I am. There's nothing he's ever suggested that I wouldn't try and nothing has ever offended me in the least. As a matter of fact- it's only ever improved things.

Is sex a source of strength in your relationship or is it a source of friction.
It's our glue- without a doubt. at lest we both feel that way. We've had a very stressful week this last week. one or the other of us was hitting the doldrums. The other one always manages to pull the other guy out of it, and there's not a nite that doesn't go by, that we don't have a big grin on our face when we go to sleep!

How long have you been together and roughly how old are you 20-30, 30-40 etc
we've been together a bit over 2 years now. We're in our late 40s' and thank God every day that we're this lucky. We were both in that type of marriage before that we hadn't had sex in so long we couldn't even remember the last time. maybe we're both making up for it- or maybe we know /feel that without it, we know where we'd wind up.We both fell that our sex life is too important for either of us to take for granted at all. We're extremely lucky I'd say. really extremely lucky!

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 9:29am

Hello Rider and welcome to SMS! glad you 'came out of the closet"! LOL! jump in anytime !


Im MEME one of the CLs here along with Nenu!

memeblue

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 06-05-2009 - 7:29am

Hi and welcome rider. Nice to meet you.


Don't you just love it when someone tells you what you want, like, etc...


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Registered: 06-04-2009
Thu, 06-04-2009 - 6:46pm

Long time lurker, first time poster.

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Registered: 02-26-2001
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 9:05pm

I've been lurking and posting on various iVillage relationship boards for going on 10 years now.

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Registered: 06-12-2008
Tue, 06-02-2009 - 3:58am

Our sex life is wonderful. I would like to be able to have more sex, but my husband and I are very busy, so we usually make love about 3 times a week, which is still great. I'd like it about 4-5 times a week, but 3 is great, too.

We have always been able to be sexually open with each other. We are very sexually compatible. We went through a tough time before during which my sexual needs were not being met (I had some trouble expressing them). We have learned to communicate, and our sex life is getting more and more amazing every day. My husband is very happily exploring tantric sex with me after I expressed my desire to explore these things. We also regularly share our fantasies with each other.

For the majority of our relationship (and now, of course) sex is a source of strength. It was a source of friction for a little while, because we were going at different paces in the bedroom. We dealt with the sexual problems we were having, and we are doing really well now.

We have been together four years, married one (our anniversary is in 1 week!). I am in my 20's and he is in his 30's.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 06-01-2009 - 7:34am

Hey Rice, how are you?

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