i found out what is has been doing

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Registered: 03-07-2005
i found out what is has been doing
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Tue, 04-12-2005 - 12:42pm

Thanks for all of your help in the last week or so. I have found out what he was upto. He has been on chat lines....(really not too bad. Everyone has the right to chat) I followed him into a fewr rooms. However, he did go in the "married and lonely" room. I started to chat with him and asking questions...yes he did say he was married and lonely etc etc. however i confronted him right way about it and he claimed he knew it was me. Granted i have a 50% feeling that he did and a 50% that he didn't know it was me. After talking it out he admitted that it is a validation...everyone like to be found attractive. Some men are flirters in public and others are not. They find flirting from their own home easier. My question is......is this a crock and I am going to get dumped eventually or does this excuse have some validity?

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Registered: 05-04-2003
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 12:56pm

((HUGS)) Leslie.


I don't know if you'll get dumped eventually or if he's telling the truth.


He didn't promote himself as single. Maybe right now it's just easier to talk to strangers about it than it is someone closer to his heart? Isn't that why you posting on here? For an outside opinion??


I don't have much advice for you, but I looked around for some other places that might be of more help:


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Registered: 02-28-2005
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 1:27pm

I don't know what direction this will go it or if he is telling the truth 1/2 truth, but it has to be progress having it out in the open.

-Pam

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Registered: 03-07-2005
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 10:04am

Thanks for all of your thoughts and well wishes. I am trying to come to a conclusion as well. Alot of it doesn't make sense. I have been asking him for a couple of months if there were issues and he kept saying it was fine. I would have been very surprised if there were because the relationship etc was good. I had been the last two or three weeks that there was other signs. The biggest stumper was rushing home to the computer if only for 10 minutes and then telling me later that he decided not to go home when it was normal for him to be there...it was out of the norm NOT to go home but I did confirm he was. ....strange...and don't get me wrong.....this the first time I have EVER checked up on things.....so it makes me wonder what else has ever happened.....