I hate initiating all the time!!!!

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Registered: 05-04-2003
I hate initiating all the time!!!!
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Tue, 04-12-2005 - 3:56pm

I hate initiating all the time!!!!



  • I am DH - and I hate initiating all the time.
  • I am DW and I hate initiating all the time.
  • Eeeeh, it's not really an issue for us.
  • Other


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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2004
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 3:58pm
It seems to me like I am the one who initiates it all the time! The only time he starts things up is if I have droped a couple of hints through the day that I am wanting it!
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Registered: 05-04-2003
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 3:59pm
I would stop initiating.. but I fear if I do - we may never have sex again!


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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2004
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 4:02pm

That is exactly why I don't stop initiating! LMAO

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2005
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 4:21pm
It used to be a problem here, but DW turned over a new leaf for the new year. Now we both initiate regularly.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2005
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 4:56pm
I posted a message in another thread about this very thing. Christi, I am like you, I initiate sex 100% of the time and the only time HE does is if I just come out and say, "I want sex later." Takes all the fun and spontaneity out of it...not to mention making me feel unwanted and undesired.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2004
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 4:59pm

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I just posted this same statment on another thread. If you figure out how to turn it around let me know and I will do the same.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2005
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 5:03pm
You've got a deal. I have tried to talk to him so many times about it, but nothing changes. I guess it's just not in him to do it...I have officially given up, but you never know.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2004
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 5:12pm
I've talked to my DH several times too, nothing is changing though.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2005
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 5:24pm
Don't give up. It took 18+ years, but my DW finally started loving sex. Miracles can happen.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-20-2004
Tue, 04-12-2005 - 5:31pm
I wouldn't go as far as saying I hate initiating all the time - hate is a very strong emotion.
But it does get a bit tiring having to initiate all the time and lacks the spontaneity and surprise
cheers Jacobiteone

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