I just wanna....

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Registered: 01-11-2006
I just wanna....
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Tue, 01-31-2006 - 12:19pm

screw!


Lets all post ideas on how to rekindle that fire or spark. (to help Jamie deal with today)


Like .....How to seduce when you are stressed and DH is exhausted from work and kids are the center of your lives and your hormones and libido is raging?


EX: At this very minute DH worked last night from 6pm-5am. He was up to help get kids ready for school and went to bed about 10am. He will wake up at 5pm to go back to work and at that point 5 kids will be running around. I could honestly walk in that bedroom and attack him in his sleep. Its like once in a blue moon is driving me up the flippin' wall. I need ideas gals! Self pleasure is dandy but there is that throbbing 7.5 inches that this chick needs without pressuring him like I do EVERYDAY! Is it okay to just go rape your DH? (jokin')

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Registered: 11-13-2004
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 2:41pm

When we were working opposite hours and DH would sleep during the day, sometimes I would just lay down next to him to supposedly nap while DS was at school.

 Michele winter
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Registered: 10-13-2005
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 2:56pm

Is it okay to just go rape your DH? (jokin')

As a guy I can tell you some of the hottest sex I've ever had with DW is when I'm out cold after working a twelve hour day and she wakes me by performing oral on me. No matter how tired I am I always rise to the occasion (so to speak). I may not always have the energy to get up off the bed but she can climb aboard and get what she needs too. They may not always be the longest sessions but hopefully it will be enough to scratch your itch. Give it a try, what have you got to lose?

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Registered: 11-22-2005
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 2:56pm
If the kids aren't around just go for it!
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Registered: 01-11-2006
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 3:02pm

Guys I'm a lovin' ya for this.....


its like getting in my DH's head without asking. Did anybody remind you how grateful some of us women are that there are men on these boards? (raises hand).


Problem is....we have 5 kids which = stress


2 of them are home all day with us in which he is asleep anyway (works nights)


I've already been on the phone hunting babysitters though. I gotta do something!


Thanks Guys! A male opinion means so much around here....don't leave us k? (wink)

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Registered: 11-22-2005
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 3:05pm
I won't-I love helping out.
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Registered: 11-20-2005
Tue, 01-31-2006 - 10:53pm
Jamie Lynn, you won't like this. Let the man sleep. He is working really hard right now and it sounds like he is exhausted. Wait until you get the sitter and then jump him. Let him know you need him and want him and you went to a lot of trouble finding the sitter, you've let him sleep all week, now he has to compromise too. By giving you exactly what you need. I just had to play devil's advocate cuz I've been there.

 

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Registered: 07-13-2005
Wed, 02-01-2006 - 10:46am
I gotta agree with Tanya - if he needs sleep, give it to him. Picking a day or a time would work better, because you could both work on your schedules to make sure you were ready for it!